Question

父母与孩子之间的代沟要英语短文

Answer 1

中:
孩子和父母之间无法沟通 两代人的思想有很大的区别 特别是对于现在的人来说
关于这个问题我们应当如何合理的处理呢？
当然
唯一的办法就是 理解 沟通

孩子理解父母：
他们所承受的压力不是你们能想象的。他们挣钱为你提供上学条件外，还要照顾双方的父母以及保证整个家庭的正常生活，他们随时关心你的学习进度与生活情况。他们的身体一直在超负荷工作 心理也承受着巨大的压力
所以 作为孩子 就应该 体谅他们 对他们有时候的脾气忍耐一下
做到 在学习上不让他们担心 在生活上不让他们操心
父母理解孩子：
孩子现在的工作是枯燥无味的学习 不是他们想要的但还必须要去接受自己不愿意做的事 这是痛苦的 他们天性好玩 父母要为这和他们生气 是没有必要的？你们要用合理的科学的方法教育他们，对孩子犯的错要即时纠正 同时不要一味的责备 孩子还小 不犯错的孩子那不是正常的

沟通
你们之间的矛盾 需要及时沟通 不要等到无法沟通的时候 才要去寻求处理的办法
那是就已经晚了 要想合理的处理双方的代沟问题 就要互相理解互相的不易
保持良好的心态对待 要经常做到换位思考
父母不能逼迫孩子学习 当他们学累了的时候 带他们出去放松了一 也让自己放松 在开心的时候 可以和孩子谈谈心 因为 在玩的时候 孩子可能更容易接受你们的意见 也能放松他们对家长的抵触心理
孩子也可以跟父母提提意见 如果 对自己的管理 过于机械化 对自己的学习要求过高
自己比较适合什么样的管理方式 自己对学习制定的目标是什么样的
这样孩子与父母之间 有良好的沟通习惯 才能做到和谐的处理矛盾
当孩子遇到什么新奇的事物 或有趣的事情 和父母分享 让他们也了解一些 可以减少以后的沟通中的问题
英:
Children and parents can not communicate between two generations of people thought a big difference, especially for people now
On this issue should be how to deal with it?
Of course
The only way is to understand communication
Children understand their parents:
The pressure is not that you can imagine. They earn money to provide you with the school conditions, but also take care of both parents and to ensure the normal life of the whole family, they always care about your learning progress and life. Their bodies have been under tremendous pressure of the overload of work psychology
Therefore, as children should appreciate their temper they sometimes patience
Do not let them worry about in their lives let them worry about learning
Parents understand the child:
The children now work is tedious learning is not what they want, but must also go to accept the things they do not want to do this is the painful nature fun parents and their anger is not necessary? If you choose to use reasonable scientific methods to educate them, to immediately rectify the mistakes of children not blindly blame the child is still small mistakes a child that is not normal
Communication
Your contradiction between the need for timely communication Do not wait to not be able to communicate when it is going to seek to address the way
It is already late in order to handle the generation gap between the two sides should understand each other each other is not easy
Maintain a good attitude to treat should always be done empathy
The parents can not force the child to learn to take them out when they learned tired relax also to relax and children to talk about happy heart can relax their parents because the children in the play may be easier to accept your views the contradiction
Children with their parents make a suggestion if the management is too mechanized asking too much for their own learning
She was more suited to what kind of management style on learning goals set what kind of
Have good communication habits in order to achieve a harmonious deal with conflicts between such children and their parents
When children encounter a novelty or interesting things and parents to share they can reduce communication problems

Answer 2

Parents say that children do not show them proper respect and obedience, while children complain that their parents do not understand them. This phenomenon is often referred to as the generation gap. What then are the causes of the generation gap?
One important cause of the generation gap is the chance that young people have to choose their way of life. In more traditional societies, when children grow up, they are expected to live in the same area as their parents, to marry people that their parents know and agree to, and to continue the family occupation. In modern society, young people often travel a great distance for their education, move out of the family at an early age, marry or live with people whom their parents have never met, and choose occupations different from those of their parents.
In the easily changing society, parents often expect their children to do better than they did: to find better jobs, to make more money; and to do all the things that they were unable to do. Often, however, the strong desire that parents have for their children are another cause of the disagreement between them. Often, they discover that they have very little in comMon with each other.
Finally, the speed at which changes take place in modern society is another cause of the gap between the generations. In a traditional culture, elderly people are valued for their wisdom, but in modern society, the knowledge of a lifetime may become out of date overnight. The young and the old seem to live in two very different worlds, separated by different skills and abilities.
No doubt, the generation gap will continue to be a future of our life for some time to come. Its causes are rooted in the changes of our society, and in the rapid speed at which society changes.