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在线跪求英文翻译以下文字 不要有道金山之类的直翻 求高手大神帮忙~~~

　我们相信，任何经营得当的家庭都有一个基础：夫妻平等。夫妻双方享有平等的人格，有平等的责任、权利和义务，平等地为家庭付出，平等地享受家庭的果实。然而我们常常进入一个误区，就是要求夫妻双方绝对平等：挣钱多少、家庭事务、子女教育、相爱程度……必然是旗鼓相当，五五对开，我做了A，你就必须做B。否则就是一方心里不痛快，或是一方心里不平衡。结果就是争强好胜，谁都不愿处于下风，争吵不可避免地发生。
　　其实，平等是相对的，没有哪一个家庭，能够真正做到绝对的平等。
　　因为，男女本不同，之所以要结为夫妻，组成家庭，就是为了享有不同带来的新奇和快乐，就是让彼此的不同弥补各自的不足，相互取暖，相扶相依走过人生。夫妻双方从一开始就已经注定了有不同的角色分工。
夫妻二人因为性别不同拥有不同的生理构造、心理条件，进而在家庭里形成不同的分工。妻子怀孕、生产，担负更多哺育后代的责任；丈夫则因身强力壮，必然肩负诸如换煤气、扛米袋之类的体力活。妻子因为心思细腻，更能照顾家人的饮食起居和家庭气氛；丈夫则因思维缜密对家庭的理财、前途等大事起主导作用……
　　同时因为体力、能力、性格、思维方式、受教育程度、知识结构等诸方面的不同，导致夫妻双方在家庭中不能平等地付出与收获。不仅经济收入上不能强求平等，家里的大小事务上也不能苛刻地要求双方各做一半。厨艺精湛的人，也许连门都不会修；内务井井有条的人，也许对照顾孩子一窍不通。况且，夫妻双方因为职业不同，各自拥有的时间不等，对家庭事务也不可能做到一刀切。
　　片面追求绝对平等，其实是忽略夫妻作为两个性别、两个个体的差别带来的结果，是想减少自身的贡献，更多地得到对方的付出。这是一种贪婪和好逸恶劳，结果必然是更加的不平等。
　　婚姻不是苹果，可以一分两半。婚姻中的平等，是一种对爱的付出的相对平等，是精神和人格的平等。就像世上有太阳也有月亮，不可能要求太阳像月亮，也不可能要求月亮像太阳。丈夫和妻子，必须有清醒的角色意识，做好自己的分内事，才是真正的平等。
不要金山 有道等直接翻译的！！！

Answer 1

We believe that any family business properly, there is a basis: husband and wife are equal. Both sides of husband and wife have equal personality, have equal responsibility, rights and obligations of equal pay for family, equally enjoy the fruit of the family. Often we enter a myth, however, is the absolute equality of both sides of husband and wife are required: how much money, family, children education, degree of love... Must be on A par, evenly split, I made A, you have to do B. Otherwise it is a square in the heart not happy, the in the mind unbalance or party. Result is competitive, who are reluctant to disadvantage, quarrels happen inevitably. In fact, equality is relative, no family, can truly achieve the absolute equality. Because, the different between men and women, the reason for the married, a family, to enjoy different novelty and happiness, is to let each other's different make up for their shortcomings, mutual heating, supporting mutually dependent through life. Both sides of husband and wife have been doomed from the start with different roles. Couple because different gender have different physical structure, psychological conditions, and thus form a different division of labor in the family. His wife pregnant, production, more nurturing offspring of responsibility; Husband, because of the strong, must shoulder like in gas, carry bag, physical labor. His wife because of idea is exquisite, more can take care of their family diet daily life and family atmosphere; Husband, because of thoughtful of family finance and future events play a leading role... At the same time because of physical strength, ability, personality, way of thinking, level of education, the knowledge structure and other aspects of different, lead to both sides of husband and wife in the family can't equal pay and harvest. Not only economic income cannot be forced on the equality, the size of the home affairs do not demanding to each half. Good cook, maybe even the doors are not repaired; House in order, and don't know anything about taking care of children. Besides, both sides of husband and wife because the profession is different, each have the time, the family business is not likely to be one size fits all. One-sided pursuit of absolute equality, it is ignored as husband and wife two gender, the results of individual difference, is to want to reduce their own contribution, and more to get each other's pay. This is a kind of greed and indolence, and the result is necessarily more inequality. Marriage is not a apple, can be divided into two half. Equality in a marriage, it is a kind of relative equality of love, is the spirit and the equality of personality. Like the sun and the moon in the world, may not require the sun like the moon, also may not require the moon as the sun. The husband and wife, must have a clear role consciousness, and do their part, are the real equality.

Answer 2

We believe that, any family business properly, there is a basis: the equality between husband and wife. The couple has equal personality, have the responsibility, rights and obligations of equality, equal pay for the family, enjoy family fruit equal. But we always tend to enter an error, is the requirement of both husband and wife absolute equality: making money, family affairs, children's education, love degree...... Must be matched, five five to open, I do the A, you must be B. Otherwise it is a heart not happy, or is a psychological imbalance. The result is to seek to prevail over others, who are unwilling to be in ahull, quarrel inevitable.
　　
In fact, the equality is relative, not a single family, can really be the absolute equalit.Because of the different, men and women, want to get married, the composition of the family, is to enjoy different brings happiness, is to make each other's different make up for their deficiencies, mutual heating, catching dependencies through life. The couple from the beginning has been to the different roles of division. Two people of husband and wife because of the gender has physiological structure, psychological condition different, thus forming a different division of labor in the family. The wife is pregnant, the offspring production, shoulder more responsibility; her husband due to be robust and strong, must shoulder such as change gas, carry bag, physical activity. His wife because of thoughtful, can take care of the family's daily life and family atmosphere; the husband because of careful thinking on family financial future events, play a leading role......　　

At the same time, because the physical strength, ability, character, mode of thinking, level of education, knowledge structure and so different, resulting in both husband and wife in the family can't equal pay and harvest. Not only the economic income cannot be enforced equality, the size of family affairs is not stringent requirements of each half. The exquisite cuisine, perhaps even the doors are not to be arranged in good order; the people, perhaps to take care of the children be utterly ignorant of. Moreover, the couple because the occupation is different, each have different lengths of time, for it is impossible to make it rigidly uniform family affairs. One-sided pursuit of absolute equality of husband and wife, fact is ignored as the two sex, two individuals from the difference of results, is to reduce their contribution, more to be each other's pay. This is a kind of greed and love leisure and hate labour, the results must be more inequality.

Marriage is not an apple, can is divided into halves. Marriage equality, is a kind of pay for love is the spirit and the relative equality, the equality of personality. Just as there is the sun has the moon, impossible to ask the sun like the moon, nor may require the moon like the sun. The husband and wife, must have a clear role consciousness, do their own thing, is the real equality.

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