Question

请高手帮我翻译一下这段话，谢谢啊~（需要人工翻译）

Forming Attachment and Bonding as first milestone for preparation of separation

Bonding: John Kennell: “affectionate tie between two individuals who have beyond space and time continuance and serve to connect them emotionally.”

Your baby´s first need is to form attachment to her parents. Attachment means that a child achieves a healthy dependence on a parental figure (usually the mother
). She becomes secure knowing that if she cries the parents will come and if she is hungry she will be fed. The parent-child relationship develops a rhythm of its own as the child comes to realize that she can affect her environment by getting a response to her behaviour. This makes her feel competent. To create secure bonding it is of proximity (Nähe) and a perspective, direct being responsive attitude towards a child. This also helps develop trust. Attachment is crucial to a child´s feeling of security and future autonomy. She must first feel secure in order to later seek independence.

Answer 1

在孩子独立生活之前，让他形成健康的依赖感是一个重要的里程碑
结合：约翰*肯内力：“两个人之间超越时空的挚爱关系是通过感情建立起来的”
你的孩子首先需要产生对父母的依赖感。这种依赖感意味着她对父母一方（一般是母亲）形成健康的依靠。她会自己意识到这种安全感，当她哭泣时，父母会过来安慰。当她饥饿时，父母会给她喂食。当孩子逐渐意识到他可以通过这些行为来改变她的处境时，这种父母与孩子之间的互动关系也就形成了。孩子因此而感到满足。让孩子建立这种安全的依赖感，需要一个长期的接触过程，对孩子的反应和需求要十分敏感。这同时协助建立她对父母信任。这种依赖感对孩子安全感的产生以及未来的独立生活有着非常重要的作用。在她开始独立之前，必须首选拥有安全感。