很迷茫，对未来该怎么办
迷茫的产生，不过是因为对一些内心本欲求东西，和未来未知领域的不确定性而造成产生的焦虑不安情绪。人最大的敌人是自己，而最难的是认清自己，因为人认可赞同自己的优秀容易，面对自己的不足却需要勇气，此刻我们需要的就是不要逃避，不要抵触，不要自欺欺人，更不要急着就找身边人求助倾诉你的心情委屈，因为在本迷失状态下，任何人的言论，都有可能错判本来的信息，直面迷茫带来的恐惧心理，并自我抽离去审视整件事情到底因为什么引起，你一定会发现，大部分情况来说，原来不过是因为自己求而不得，没有能力达成你的预期。
人这部机器，无论是身体出现故障，还是心出现毛病，循序渐进别着急慢慢调理才行。先停止那个让你感到迷茫的事情，不是放弃不是逃避，只是暂时放下对它的纠结情绪，因为当人感到迷茫的时候，无论是思维还是决定，往往都不会是最佳的状态，你需要恢复后获取更多的信息，才能找到正确的方向。从面对接纳自己开始，只有接纳了自己的不完美，才不会再执拗在自己设置的光环里受尽折磨举步维艰。
不要小瞧看书的魔力，它会带你走入另一个世界里，分散你的焦虑，给你新的思路，很多你内心本懂得的事情，有时候在那一刻也许会有不一样的共鸣和领悟，所以选择一本好书静心阅读，是在迷茫时期不错的选择，那是给你心灵补充营养的方式。人与生俱来都具备渴望他人的理解、认同赞赏，以满足自己的优越存在感的欲求，书从不会辜负静静地去寻找它们的人，潜心与之交流的人。最终书可以让你得到智慧和不一样的气质，就是可用帮你提升进步达到这一目标的催化剂。
当心有了新的认知，记得迈开腿走出去，人的心态，很大程度上取决于你身处的环境。走出去看看世界，你会有不一样的心境，或者会因为某个瞬间，整个人都会突然变得豁然开朗，说不出的放松，在固有的模式圈下生活，闭塞的除了交际，还有你的思维和心境。
大家都说旅行是在自己呆腻的地方，去别人呆腻的地方瞎折腾，其实心累了换个角度看世界，压抑的时候，换个环境去呼吸，未尝不是一件好的事情。新的氛围，可以使你跳出原来的思维定式，从新的视角去发现不能察觉的问题。到那时，你或者会在不经意间就与自己和解，心对了，自己的世界也就对了。
或者迷茫期只是暂时缓解，在不确定未来的某个定期时间或路口它又会在等着你，可我们人生本就是如此，周而复始的东西避无可避，唯有的就是那颗淡定的心，再次接纳并适度纾解，才能不断从阴霾中重获阳光不丢失自己。
Confusion arises only because of anxiety and anxiety caused by inner desires and uncertainty of future unknown fields.Man's greatest enemy is yourself, but the most difficult is to recognize yourself, because people recognition for their own good is easy, but it takes courage to face my own inadequacy, now we need to do is not to escape, don't, don't delude ourselves, not to rush around looking for people for help pour out your mood, because in this lost state, anyone's comments, is likely to be wrongly information originally, face the confusion of fear, and self what smoke go look at the whole thing because, you will find that the most part, but because their original and can not, don't have the ability to achieve your expectations.
People this machine, whether there is a physical failure, or heart problems, step by step do not worry slowly recuperate.First stop the thing that makes you feel confused, not to give up or escape, just temporarily put down the tangle of emotions about it, because when people feel confused, either thinking or decision, is often not the best state, you need to recover to get more information, to find the right direction.From the face of accept yourself, only by accepting their own imperfections, will not be stubborn in the aura of their own set suffering hardship.
Don't dismiss the magic of reading, it will take you to another world, distract your anxiety, give you a new train of thought, a lot of your heart this understand things, sometimes at that moment may have different resonance and understanding, so choose meditation reading a good book, is a good choice in the period of the confusion, and that's the way the compensatory nutrition for your mind.People are born with the desire for understanding, identification and appreciation from others, so as to satisfy their own desire for superior existence. Books never fail those who quietly seek them and communicate with them with great efforts.In the end, books can give you wisdom and a different temperament, which can be used as a catalyst to help you improve and achieve this goal.
Beware of the new cognition, remember to step out of the legs, people's mentality, to a large extent depends on your environment.Go out to see the world, you will have a different state of mind, or because of a certain moment, the whole person will suddenly become suddenly enlightened, can not say the relaxation, in the inherent mode of life, closed in addition to communication, but also your thinking and state of mind.
We all say that travel is to stay in the place you are tired of, to go where others are tired of messing around, in fact, the heart is tired to see the world from a different perspective, when depressed, to change the environment to breathe, is not a good thing.New atmosphere, can make you jump out of the original thinking pattern, from a new perspective to find the problem can not be detected.At that time, you may inadvertently and their own reconciliation, the heart, their world is right.
It will be waiting for you at some fixed time or at the crossroads in the uncertain future. However, this is the nature of our life. We cannot avoid the cyclical things.
你是本科。毕业证不会写着多少本的。已经比专科，高中，中专初中毕业的强多了，至少学习方能力方面是这样的。
如果没有专业对口方面的给予。也没有可靠的亲戚朋友资源，那么。你主要有以下几条路。
a.校招，其他学院的校招，多多留意，然后准备好你的简历，在学校时候，尽量就把工作搞定。此为上上策。第一份工作几乎决定了你一辈子的工作方向。
b。如果错过了，口才还不错，并且愿意吃苦，那么做销售。前提是你是刚毕业或者还没毕业。此为上策
c。如果无法做销售，直接把目标定位到国内的大型工厂，职位定位在助理工程师。进去就是小管理，一步步往上爬，不出十年，就可以当个小厂长。也是极好的。此为中上策
如果家里有大量家产等着继承，那就回家去把。哈哈
接下来回答你问题，只要欲望不大，努力做工还是能养活自己的，如果想要一番事业，你要先自身定位你是什么样的人，什么样的性格，有什么技能，能不能吃苦，你现在自己都没好好认知自己你就觉得无力改变了，肯定迷茫
我自身也不是很有野心的人，但是有点小虚荣。我想要稳定一点，出来工作三五年后能有六七千的工资一月，但是很多人说，这个专业也就三四千的样子。
