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What are some of the differences between love and infatuation? Genuine love is more likely to involve a process of “growing” in love rather than “falling” in love. This may sound terribly unromantic to some who are used to hearing talk about “falling in love” or being “head over heels in love”. This “falling” is often infatuation, and the sheer emotion of “falling in love” often blinds a person to the imperfections of the loved one. We tend to think of the loved one as “perfect”, “ideal”, or some other divine image. Real love sees the total person----both the perfection and the imperfection. Infatuation, then, is a sudden, emotional sense that one has discovered the “perfect” lover. On the other hand, love realizes imperfections and grows with the acceptance of imperfections.

Love leads a person to a feeling of security and trust in the loved one. It usually involves a feeling of mutual benefit arising from the new relationship. We are able to solve our problems together is the feeling of love, rather than “Please love me because I need you.”

Answer 1

爱和痴迷有什么不同？真爱更可能包含一个爱的“成长”的过程而不是“陷入”爱中。这可能对于那些经常听说谈论“陷入爱中”或是“着迷”的人听起来很不浪漫。这种“陷入”总是痴迷。并且这种纯粹的“陷入爱中”的情感经常是一个人忽视爱人的不完美之处。我们倾向于把爱人想成“完美”，“理想”或是其他神圣的形象。真正的爱注视着所有的人，包括完美和不完美的人。而痴迷是一种一个人发现“完美”爱人的突然性的情感。另一方面，爱意味着不完美和伴随着不完美的成长。
爱使得一个人有了安全感并且信任爱人。它通常包含着一种从新的关系中彼此利益增长的感觉。我们能够共同解决问题这就是一种爱的感觉，而不是“请爱我吧，因为我需要你”。
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