Question

用英语写一篇关于交又的文章. 交友

Answer 1

When you meet someone, you don't know whether that person is going to become a good friend, so you have to be a bit careful at first.
Friendship is like planting a seed that you've found. You are not quite sure what is going to come up so you have to watch it carefully and nurture (look after) it.
Maybe it won't grow, in spite of your best efforts.
Maybe it will only grow into a weak and sickly plant, or it could grow into a horrible weed and you would have to pull it up.
So what can you do?
1)Hang out where others that you would like to be friends with do and join in with their plans unless you really disagree.
2)If you don't agree with their plans say so in a positive way, "I like this bit but maybe we could…"
3)Accept people as they are. You can like other people even if you don't agree with everything they say or do.
4)You don't have to know about or have an opinion on everything - in fact it is often better if you don't.
5)Get to know people well by sharing 'safe' thoughts with them first. What is a safe thought? It might be something about school or TV or your favourite footy team. It isn't always safe to tell someone you don't know very personal things about you, like things you might be worried about or afraid of.
6)Be a good listener so that others can tell that you are really interested in what they are saying.
If you're lucky the person you meet may become a regular friend or even, after a long time, a best friend.