Question

Tell me why?

Actually, this is a private question! If there's someone who could tell me, I'd really appreciate it. Is it normal that a person has no sex at the age of 25? My mother has arranged a lot of dates for me, but I just can't make things go further even a girl and I have slept together. I just don't dare to take my little brother out and make the move because I think it is a shame to do that. I often pray to god, if you could help me with this, I would give my life to you. Could you give me a way to close this hell? I want to stop being a virgin as soon as I can. I am here to wait for your helpful answer.
Thanks for all your suggestions, thanks for giving me courage. I will try hard to make it right. I think I should give the best-answer title to the third one but also want to say thanks to the other three.
Now here's the answer for your question: 1. I just want to find a girl who do really care for me and it's enough. 2. In my opinion, I'd rather have a girl instead of a guy. 3. I want to get consolations from her when I get hurt, sharing my happiness, my sorrow and my soul with her. 4. I can give her a family which always supports her, protects her and let her cry in my arms when she faces difficulties. But I just can't do the last step.

Answer 1

I am not sure what kind of person you may be, but I consider anyone without sex life at 25 fine and reasonable. You see, love is a quite complicated devil. You don't have sex with just anyone because you think it's necessary to stop being a virgin. Sorry, no is my answer to loveless sex. However, I do have some suggestions for your case. But let's have a question-and-answer game first, okay?

1: What kind of personalities do you like?

Don't just find or accept anyone that is not your style. But if you have a nice feeling about anyone, go for a try.

2: What kind of partner do you like? (optional)

I don't care whether you like a girl or a guy, just keep the answer to yourself. Once you really realize what your partner is going to be like, you will have a much clearer direction to go.

3: What do you expect from your partner?

Either you just want to play along for some time or you want to end your virgin life with your love, or you even want a marriage is not in my concern. My only point here is to know your goal.

4: What can YOU do for your partner?

Know your power, know your limit.

Now, if you have already learned more about yourself, go out and make me proud! You are a guy for God's sake, so start acting like one and enjoy your new life.

Oh, and one last advice: When you feel the urge to make your partner stay with you for ever, don't forget to use condom. That is what care is about.

Good luck!

PS: Thank you for the answers although they're not quite why I put those questions, heh heh. About the last step, just don't push it, okay? You will know when to do it, when the time comes. Now, just prepare yourself for the girl hunt, and don't panic for your own sake. ^^

Answer 2

The answer is you don't those girls.
But my question is "Do you really think sex means love."
Go out, and find your true love my dear.
All you need is what you really want.
Wish you good luck! The one is just there waiting for you.

Answer 3

I am now wonder what was the action that girl who you been slept all night and without took a further move took.
All you need to do is try some alcohol before get to bed the next time.

Answer 4

you can take some medicine and it may help you.