Question

请翻译成中文 谢谢

It is not until I take a step back and look at my family
that I can really appreciate this thing has helped me grow strong and
mature(成熟).

主要是take a step back不会译。
前文讲的是父母离婚，作者感到很伤心。I knew I was not the only one who had gone through this. But i must learn to fight against this. Later in the day I took up a pen
and wrote down "It is not until I take a step back and look at my family
that I can really appreciate this thing has helped me grow strong and
mature(成熟)."

Answer 1

我知道我并非唯一一个经历这些的人。
不过，我得要学习坚强地面对这些(fight against this 有坚强面对的意思，比单纯的"face this"语气强烈一些）。

那天稍迟一点的时候，我提起了笔写下了这一句："
直到我退一步以便能以客观的角度看我的家庭（问题），我才真正了解并感悟，这段经历让我变得更坚强和成熟。”

take a step back and look at... ...， 有“不再钻牛角尖并且站在旁观者的角度评论 /看待(和自己有密切关系的事务)”的意思。

例句：-

The Priest asks him to take a step back and look at the situation from a new or different perspective and a calmer mind.

那位神父劝他别太纠结，退后一步尝试用冷静的心态和客观的角度看待他遇到的局势。

Answer 2

它不是直到我退后一步，看看我的家人
我真正明白这事使我茁壮
成熟

我知道我不是唯一一个谁已通过这个了。但是，我必须学会对付这一点。在稍后的一天，我拿起一支笔
并写下“这是直到我退后一步，看看我的家人
我真正明白这事使我茁壮
成熟