Question

什么样的细节会让你突然觉得这个人情商很高

Answer 1

大家在一起聊天的时候带一带不怎么说话的我

When we talked together, I was in a quiet neighborhood

未知全貌不予置评的人，不随便评价别人

Those who do not comment on the unknown are not free to judge others

分得清场合身份 不乱开玩笑

You know, keep it clean, don't kid around

做什么事之前都会提前和你说一声 而且是那种轻轻的和你说不是隔着大半个教室对你吼一句

Before doing anything will tell you in advance, and is the kind of gently and you say not half the classroom across from you to yell at you

能看出别人说话行为情商高的人 一定同样也是一个情商高的人

The person who can see the High Eq in others'speech behavior must also be a high eq person

你给他发了好几条消息会一条一条逐条回复

You sent him a bunch of messages, and you're gonNA answer them one by one

把对人的尊重落实到实处

Respect for human beings to the letter

能察觉出来我的情绪然后转移话题我拒绝了

To pick up on my emotions and change the subject. Damn it

地铁上戴耳机 接电话转过身去 拥挤的电梯里背着书包不乱晃

Wear headphones on the subway, turn around to answer the phone, carrying a backpack in a crowded elevator do not wander

我说话的时候会认真听

I listen when I talk

无论做什么事之前会询问我一下

Ask me before you do anything

能在我最难过的时候想到来鼓励我夸我而不是更加地指责我的人

The person who comes to me in my darkest hour and encourages me rather than criticizes me more

懂得换位思考 察觉别人的情绪

To be able to put yourself in someone else's shoes, to feel their emotions

保持轻快生活的秘诀，就是别总把热情花在不相干的地方。不在乎你的人怎么讨好也没用，在乎你的人就算看透你的阴暗面也不会走远。说到底，人还是要把时间和精力留给真正值得的人

The secret to a happy life is not to spend your passion in irrelevant places. It's no use trying to please people who don't care about you. People who care about you won't go far even if they see through your dark side. At the end of the day, you have to give your time and energy to the people who are really worth it

能察觉到我不引人注意的小情绪

Can detect my inconspicuous little moods

说话的时候会认真地看着你的眼睛 认真倾听你所说的话

Look you in the eye when you speak and listen to what you have to say