如何过好这一生？
A. 如何看待人生
B. 如何调节情绪
C. 规划人生目标
D. 做出好决定
E. 坚持执行
F. 如何调整风险
• 这一生就想打磨自己这件作品，活得符合自己期待，活出自己的样子。把生活过成诗，你的终点在远方。
• 生活不是线性的，难于完全按照自己的规划发展，很多时候是即兴创作的过程，选择的要义是成长，不要为了防御、安全、展示自我等原因做选择。
• 一辈子像一颗种子一样生活和成长，持续复盘，开放进取的心态，随时转型和回炉的学习，这是没有退休而长久的一生。
• 人生大部分时间和精力投入在有基础的领域，保障生活的持续；把余下的时间精力投入思趋势型领域，提升自己，为可能的正向黑天鹅事件做准备。
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