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Certainly people make you feel comfortable when they are around. You spend an hour with them an...

Certainly people make you feel comfortable when they are around. You spend an hour with them and feel as if you’ve known them half your life. These people have something in common. And once we know what it is, we can try to do it ourselves.How is it done? Here are several skills (技巧) that good talkers have. If you follow the skills, they will help you put people at ease, and make friends with them quickly.First of all, good talkers ask questions. Almost anyone, no matter how shy they are, will answer a question. One well-known businessman says. “At business lunches, I always ask people what they did this morning. It’s a common question, but it will get things going.” From there you can move on to other matters sometimes to really personal questions. And how they answer will let you know how far you can go.Second, once good talkers have asked questions they listen for the answer. This point seems clear, but it isn’t. Your questions should have a point and help to tell what sort of person you are talking to. And to find out, you really have to listen carefully and attentively (专心地).Real listening means certain things. First it means not to change the subject of conversation (对话). If someone sticks to (坚持) one topic (话题), you can take it as a fact that he’ll be really interested in it. Real listening also means not just listening to words, but to tones (语调) of voice. If the voice sounds dull, then, it’s time for you to change the subject. Finally, good talkers know well how to deal with the occasion (场合) of parting. If you’re saying goodbye, you may give him a firm handshake and say, “I’ve really enjoyed meeting you.” If you want to see that person again, don’t keep it secret. Let people know what you feel, and they may walk away feeling as if they’ve known you half their life.64. You’ll like to stay with certain people because ________. A. they know how to get along with others B. you can often get much help from them C. they are always glad to do anything for you D. they will never get you into trouble65. Asking questions might be quite a good way ________. A. for you to make more and more new friends B. to begin your business talks C. to get the conversation going well D. for you to make a deep and lasting impression (印象) on others66. After having asked somebody a question, it’ll be polite of you to ________. A. make clear what kink of person he is B. listen to his answer attentively C. wait quietly and patiently for his answer D. talk with others67. Generally speaking, good talkers are persons who ________. A. are good at making any topic interesting B. never talk too much or too little C. always speak in a gentle way D. know how and when they should change the topic of the talk

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小题1:A 小题2:C 小题3:B 小题4:D