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生活总是在取舍中选择
一个人觉得生活很沉重，便去见智者，寻求解脱之法。智者给他一个篓子背在身上，指着一条石子路说：“你每走一步路就捡一块石头放进去，看看有什么感觉。”那人说很沉重。智者告诉他：“这就是为什么感觉生活越来越沉重的道理。生活中我们不断地捡东西放在心里，于是越来越累。”那人问：“有什么办法可以减轻这沉重吗？”智者问他：“你愿意把工作、爱情、家庭、友谊、金钱、地位、名声哪一样拿出来扔掉呢？”那人不说话了。
由此看来，人这一辈子只有两个时候最轻松：一是出生时，赤条条而来，背着空篓子；一是死亡时，把篓子里的东西倒得干干净净，然后赤条条而去。（除此之外就是不断往篓子里放东西的过程。心为形役，所以会感觉到累，可是又不愿放弃篓子里的东西，因为每放弃一样东西，心是会流血的！）生活总是在取舍中选择。
生活中，大多人总希望有所得，以为拥有的东西越多，自己就会越快乐，所以就会沿着追寻获得的路走下去。可是，有一天，忽然发觉，忧郁，无奈，困惑，伤心，无聊，一切不快乐，都和自己的图谋有着密切的联系，之所以不快乐，是因为渴望拥有的东西太多太多了，或者，太过于执着了，以致于不知不觉中，我们已经执迷于某个事物上了。生活中，也有很多人知道，懂得舍得，才能获得！只是，人事间舍不得的情况，总往往多于舍得：因为家人的干预与阻扰，而使原本真心相爱的两人无法结合，他们舍不得；因为利益的驱使与诱惑，而使原本已经犯错的人无法回头，他们舍不得；因为环境的遭遇与变迁，而使原本蒸蒸日上的事业陷入低谷，他们舍不得......
痛苦失落的时候，痛哭、怨恨、迷茫都于事无补，只有自己想明白了才行。有些事既然不能放弃追求，就要承受为追求理想可能承担的苦痛。其实放弃很容易承担很难，抱怨很容易理解很难。人生短暂，我们学习豁达些、宽容些、懂得舍弃，不难为自己，也许就能活得轻松些。
古人有云：“命里有时终须有，命里无时莫强求！”，虽然很多时候我们并不相信命运这种东西，但在现实生活中，有时候我们却不得不屈服于命运。命运这种东西，常常是最会捉弄人的，它可以使你从云霄顶端跌入地狱深渊，遍尝人世间的酸甜苦辣。无论你喜不喜欢、愿不愿意，这样的经历都必须走一遭，有时候甚至更多。
在现实生活中，鱼和熊掌，往往是不可兼得的，因而在取与舍之间，总是那么让人难以抉择。抉择之所以如此艰难，常常是因为我们内心舍不得放弃，摇摆不定。所以，很多时候我们必须去学会懂得，人生的道路，总是崎岖的，我们不能把目光仅局限于眼前失去的东西，应该时刻保持一颗感恩的心，感谢生命，感谢人生，感谢生活中别人所给予的。
舍弃一样我们舍不得的东西，或许我们会心痛乃至心碎，但那并不意味着我们就永远也得不到。很多现状只是暂时的，既然目前我们没有能力去解决与应付，那么就算是想得再多也是无益，徒增忧郁伤感。“忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空”，生活的方式是由我们自己去掌握和选择的，快乐或者痛苦，其实都在我们手中。要怎么生活，决定权在我们。
记得卡耐基有过这样一段话：“我们在生活中获得的快乐，并不在于我们身处何方，也不在于我们拥有什么，更不在于我们是怎样的一个人，而只在于我们的心灵所达到的境界。”因而当我们学会了从得到中失去，从失去中获得，抛弃刻意追求卓越的野心，忘掉时时不如意的烦心，简单地享受生活，我们就是快乐的。这样虽然平平淡淡，但却是生活的真谛。
获得一样我们心所想的东西，或许我们会兴奋乃至欣狂，但那也无法说明我们就一定可以永远占有。有时候我们也常常在想，要是能够怎么怎么样，那该有多好啊。但是生命往往是活生生的，要我们去切身地体会和感受，而不只是单靠想象就可以的。生活需要我们的，不是想，而是做。实际一些的东西，才是最重要的。
虽然生活中最美丽的风景总是在远方，但并不是每个人都有那么好的运气和机遇可以获得的。人事间的事情，总是没有绝对完美的，该放弃的时候就应该果断放弃的。对于已经结束的东西，要想挽回总是很艰难的，就算真的可以挽回又如何呢？人生细细数来，最多的也不过百来年，而且也只是少数，大多数人也才几十年而已，所以应该知足常乐。
人生总是有取有舍的，不要一味地争论命运的公平与否，即使生命本来就是不公平的。每个人都会有无能为力的时候，也都有自己的弱点、问题和困难，但是我们的生命终究还是我们自己独有的，所以也只能尽可能地努力，无论你是谁，正在做什么，重要的是做最好的你。对于那些正在实现的哪怕是微不足道的愿望，我们也不该去刻意地取嘲笑或放弃。
每个人都渴望成功，每个人都渴望改变自己目前不尽人意的现状，每个人都希望这一生能够做一番事业，但是，生活中有些事情，并不像我们想象的那么简单、那么容易。能够成功的人毕竟总是少数，大多数人往往是终老碌碌无为，毫无所成。所以这一辈子即使我们没有什么大的成就，但只要我们快乐地活着，那就是最大的幸福。
Life is always selected in the choice
One who feels life is very heavy, he went to see the wise, to seek relief of the law. Wise to give him a basket back on the body, pointing to a gravel road, said: "Every step forward to pick up a stone into them and see what it feels like." Said the man was heavy. A wise man told him: "This is why life is getting a heavy feeling of truth. Life, we continue to pick something in my heart, so more and more tired." The man asked: "Is there any way to alleviate this heavy it?" A wise man asked him: "Would you like to work, love, family, friendship, money, status, fame, like what to throw it out?" The man did not speak.
From this, only two people in my entire life time the most relaxed: one was born, naked from, carrying an empty basket; one death, down to Lou Zili things clean, and then either run away. (In addition to what is constantly put to the Lou Zili process. Soul a slave, it will feel tired, but unwilling to give up Lou Zili things, because each give up something, the heart will bleed!) Life always trade-offs in the choice.
Life, most people always want to have income, something that has more that he will become happy, so it will go along way to search for access. However, one day, suddenly found, depression, helplessness, confusion, sadness, boredom, all is not happy, and their attempts are closely linked, the reason is not happy, because the desire to have things too much, or , too persistent, and so that unconsciously, we have some things on the obsession. Life, many people know, know how to be willing to get! But, could not bear the situation between the personnel, the total is often more than willing to: his family's intervention and obstruction, leaving two people really love the original can not be combined, they could not bear; as driven by the interests and the temptation to have made a mistake leaving the original people can not go back, they could not bear; because of the experiences and changes in the environment, leaving the original cause of thriving in a slump, they could not bear ......
Pain of lost time, crying, anger, confusion would not help, only you want to understand Caixing. Since I can not give up on some things, we must bear in pursuit of the ideal may bear the pain. In fact, very easy to take very difficult to give up, hard to complain about is easy to understand. Life is short, we learn more open-minded, tolerant, know how to give up, it is easy for themselves, may be able to live easier.
The ancients goes: "Sometimes life in the end must have, when the Mo-free life in the force!", Although often this kind of thing we do not believe in fate, but in real life, sometimes we had to succumb to fate. The fate of this kind of thing, often the most at fooling people, it can make you fall into the abyss from the top of the clouds, Bianchang ups and downs of this world. Whether you like it or not, willing or not, this experience must be born, and sometimes even more.
In real life, fish and bear's paw, often can not have both, and therefore take and homes in between, always so hard to choose. Choice is so difficult, because our hearts are often reluctant to give up, wavering. So many times we have to learn to understand, the road of life, always rough, we can not be limited to the immediate loss of vision of things, should always maintain a grateful heart, for life, for life, for life, others given.
We are reluctant to give up something, like, maybe we will even heartache heartbreak, but that does not mean we never get. Many current situation is only temporary, since at present we do not have the ability to solve and cope with, then even more is to be no good, and inviting melancholy sad. "Bear one o'clock calm, take a step backward" way of life is to grasp and choose our own, happy or painful, in fact, in our hands. To how life in our decision.
Remember Carnegie had this to say: "We get happy in life, is not that where we live, nor is what we have, but not the kind of person we are, but only because our hearts reached the state. "So when we learn to be lost from, obtained from the lost, abandoned ambitions deliberate pursuit of excellence, always forget the unhappy worry, simply enjoy life, we are happy. So although nothing exciting, but it is the true meaning of life.
Get the same things that our hearts are thinking, perhaps we will be excited and even welcomed the frenzy, but also could not say we will be able to hold forever. Sometimes we have often wondered how and how if you could, that the more wonderful. But life often is a living, vital to us to appreciate and feel, not just simply think about that. Life we need, not want, but do. The actual number of things, is the most important.
While life is always the most beautiful scenery in the distance, but not everyone has that kind of luck and opportunities available. Between the personnel matter is not always absolutely perfect, the time to give up should be determined to give up. For over things, in order to restore a hard life, even if true, how can restore it? The number of life carefully, but also the largest percentage in the coming year, but also a minority, most people only a few years only, so it should be contented.
Life has always taken care of, not blindly argue it fair or not, even if life has always been unfair. Everyone will have time to do nothing, also have their own weaknesses, problems and difficulties, but after all, our lives our own unique, so it can work as much as possible, no matter who you are, what is being done, it is important is to do the best you. For those who are realizing the aspirations of the slightest, we do not deliberately go get laughed at, or give up.
Everybody wants to succeed, everyone is eager to change their current unsatisfactory status quo, everyone wants to do something in this life to the cause, but some things in life are not so simple as we think, so easy. After all, successful people are always a few, most people lead their lives is often commonplace, without some success. So what is this life if we do not have great success, but as long as we are happy to be alive, and that is the greatest happiness.
一个人觉得生活很沉重，便去见智者，寻求解脱之法。智者给他一个篓子背在身上，指着一条石子路说：“你每走一步路就捡一块石头放进去，看看有什么感觉。”那人说很沉重。智者告诉他：“这就是为什么感觉生活越来越沉重的道理。生活中我们不断地捡东西放在心里，于是越来越累。”那人问：“有什么办法可以减轻这沉重吗？”智者问他：“你愿意把工作、爱情、家庭、友谊、金钱、地位、名声哪一样拿出来扔掉呢？”那人不说话了。
由此看来，人这一辈子只有两个时候最轻松：一是出生时，赤条条而来，背着空篓子；一是死亡时，把篓子里的东西倒得干干净净，然后赤条条而去。（除此之外就是不断往篓子里放东西的过程。心为形役，所以会感觉到累，可是又不愿放弃篓子里的东西，因为每放弃一样东西，心是会流血的！）生活总是在取舍中选择。
生活中，大多人总希望有所得，以为拥有的东西越多，自己就会越快乐，所以就会沿着追寻获得的路走下去。可是，有一天，忽然发觉，忧郁，无奈，困惑，伤心，无聊，一切不快乐，都和自己的图谋有着密切的联系，之所以不快乐，是因为渴望拥有的东西太多太多了，或者，太过于执着了，以致于不知不觉中，我们已经执迷于某个事物上了。生活中，也有很多人知道，懂得舍得，才能获得！只是，人事间舍不得的情况，总往往多于舍得：因为家人的干预与阻扰，而使原本真心相爱的两人无法结合，他们舍不得；因为利益的驱使与诱惑，而使原本已经犯错的人无法回头，他们舍不得；因为环境的遭遇与变迁，而使原本蒸蒸日上的事业陷入低谷，他们舍不得......
痛苦失落的时候，痛哭、怨恨、迷茫都于事无补，只有自己想明白了才行。有些事既然不能放弃追求，就要承受为追求理想可能承担的苦痛。其实放弃很容易承担很难，抱怨很容易理解很难。人生短暂，我们学习豁达些、宽容些、懂得舍弃，不难为自己，也许就能活得轻松些。
古人有云：“命里有时终须有，命里无时莫强求！”，虽然很多时候我们并不相信命运这种东西，但在现实生活中，有时候我们却不得不屈服于命运。命运这种东西，常常是最会捉弄人的，它可以使你从云霄顶端跌入地狱深渊，遍尝人世间的酸甜苦辣。无论你喜不喜欢、愿不愿意，这样的经历都必须走一遭，有时候甚至更多。
在现实生活中，鱼和熊掌，往往是不可兼得的，因而在取与舍之间，总是那么让人难以抉择。抉择之所以如此艰难，常常是因为我们内心舍不得放弃，摇摆不定。所以，很多时候我们必须去学会懂得，人生的道路，总是崎岖的，我们不能把目光仅局限于眼前失去的东西，应该时刻保持一颗感恩的心，感谢生命，感谢人生，感谢生活中别人所给予的。
舍弃一样我们舍不得的东西，或许我们会心痛乃至心碎，但那并不意味着我们就永远也得不到。很多现状只是暂时的，既然目前我们没有能力去解决与应付，那么就算是想得再多也是无益，徒增忧郁伤感。“忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空”，生活的方式是由我们自己去掌握和选择的，快乐或者痛苦，其实都在我们手中。要怎么生活，决定权在我们。
记得卡耐基有过这样一段话：“我们在生活中获得的快乐，并不在于我们身处何方，也不在于我们拥有什么，更不在于我们是怎样的一个人，而只在于我们的心灵所达到的境界。”因而当我们学会了从得到中失去，从失去中获得，抛弃刻意追求卓越的野心，忘掉时时不如意的烦心，简单地享受生活，我们就是快乐的。这样虽然平平淡淡，但却是生活的真谛。
获得一样我们心所想的东西，或许我们会兴奋乃至欣狂，但那也无法说明我们就一定可以永远占有。有时候我们也常常在想，要是能够怎么怎么样，那该有多好啊。但是生命往往是活生生的，要我们去切身地体会和感受，而不只是单靠想象就可以的。生活需要我们的，不是想，而是做。实际一些的东西，才是最重要的。
虽然生活中最美丽的风景总是在远方，但并不是每个人都有那么好的运气和机遇可以获得的。人事间的事情，总是没有绝对完美的，该放弃的时候就应该果断放弃的。对于已经结束的东西，要想挽回总是很艰难的，就算真的可以挽回又如何呢？人生细细数来，最多的也不过百来年，而且也只是少数，大多数人也才几十年而已，所以应该知足常乐。
人生总是有取有舍的，不要一味地争论命运的公平与否，即使生命本来就是不公平的。每个人都会有无能为力的时候，也都有自己的弱点、问题和困难，但是我们的生命终究还是我们自己独有的，所以也只能尽可能地努力，无论你是谁，正在做什么，重要的是做最好的你。对于那些正在实现的哪怕是微不足道的愿望，我们也不该去刻意地取嘲笑或放弃。
每个人都渴望成功，每个人都渴望改变自己目前不尽人意的现状，每个人都希望这一生能够做一番事业，但是，生活中有些事情，并不像我们想象的那么简单、那么容易。能够成功的人毕竟总是少数，大多数人往往是终老碌碌无为，毫无所成。所以这一辈子即使我们没有什么大的成就，但只要我们快乐地活着，那就是最大的幸福。
Life is always selected in the choice
One who feels life is very heavy, he went to see the wise, to seek relief of the law. Wise to give him a basket back on the body, pointing to a gravel road, said: "Every step forward to pick up a stone into them and see what it feels like." Said the man was heavy. A wise man told him: "This is why life is getting a heavy feeling of truth. Life, we continue to pick something in my heart, so more and more tired." The man asked: "Is there any way to alleviate this heavy it?" A wise man asked him: "Would you like to work, love, family, friendship, money, status, fame, like what to throw it out?" The man did not speak.
From this, only two people in my entire life time the most relaxed: one was born, naked from, carrying an empty basket; one death, down to Lou Zili things clean, and then either run away. (In addition to what is constantly put to the Lou Zili process. Soul a slave, it will feel tired, but unwilling to give up Lou Zili things, because each give up something, the heart will bleed!) Life always trade-offs in the choice.
Life, most people always want to have income, something that has more that he will become happy, so it will go along way to search for access. However, one day, suddenly found, depression, helplessness, confusion, sadness, boredom, all is not happy, and their attempts are closely linked, the reason is not happy, because the desire to have things too much, or , too persistent, and so that unconsciously, we have some things on the obsession. Life, many people know, know how to be willing to get! But, could not bear the situation between the personnel, the total is often more than willing to: his family's intervention and obstruction, leaving two people really love the original can not be combined, they could not bear; as driven by the interests and the temptation to have made a mistake leaving the original people can not go back, they could not bear; because of the experiences and changes in the environment, leaving the original cause of thriving in a slump, they could not bear ......
Pain of lost time, crying, anger, confusion would not help, only you want to understand Caixing. Since I can not give up on some things, we must bear in pursuit of the ideal may bear the pain. In fact, very easy to take very difficult to give up, hard to complain about is easy to understand. Life is short, we learn more open-minded, tolerant, know how to give up, it is easy for themselves, may be able to live easier.
The ancients goes: "Sometimes life in the end must have, when the Mo-free life in the force!", Although often this kind of thing we do not believe in fate, but in real life, sometimes we had to succumb to fate. The fate of this kind of thing, often the most at fooling people, it can make you fall into the abyss from the top of the clouds, Bianchang ups and downs of this world. Whether you like it or not, willing or not, this experience must be born, and sometimes even more.
In real life, fish and bear's paw, often can not have both, and therefore take and homes in between, always so hard to choose. Choice is so difficult, because our hearts are often reluctant to give up, wavering. So many times we have to learn to understand, the road of life, always rough, we can not be limited to the immediate loss of vision of things, should always maintain a grateful heart, for life, for life, for life, others given.
We are reluctant to give up something, like, maybe we will even heartache heartbreak, but that does not mean we never get. Many current situation is only temporary, since at present we do not have the ability to solve and cope with, then even more is to be no good, and inviting melancholy sad. "Bear one o'clock calm, take a step backward" way of life is to grasp and choose our own, happy or painful, in fact, in our hands. To how life in our decision.
Remember Carnegie had this to say: "We get happy in life, is not that where we live, nor is what we have, but not the kind of person we are, but only because our hearts reached the state. "So when we learn to be lost from, obtained from the lost, abandoned ambitions deliberate pursuit of excellence, always forget the unhappy worry, simply enjoy life, we are happy. So although nothing exciting, but it is the true meaning of life.
Get the same things that our hearts are thinking, perhaps we will be excited and even welcomed the frenzy, but also could not say we will be able to hold forever. Sometimes we have often wondered how and how if you could, that the more wonderful. But life often is a living, vital to us to appreciate and feel, not just simply think about that. Life we need, not want, but do. The actual number of things, is the most important.
While life is always the most beautiful scenery in the distance, but not everyone has that kind of luck and opportunities available. Between the personnel matter is not always absolutely perfect, the time to give up should be determined to give up. For over things, in order to restore a hard life, even if true, how can restore it? The number of life carefully, but also the largest percentage in the coming year, but also a minority, most people only a few years only, so it should be contented.
Life has always taken care of, not blindly argue it fair or not, even if life has always been unfair. Everyone will have time to do nothing, also have their own weaknesses, problems and difficulties, but after all, our lives our own unique, so it can work as much as possible, no matter who you are, what is being done, it is important is to do the best you. For those who are realizing the aspirations of the slightest, we do not deliberately go get laughed at, or give up.
Everybody wants to succeed, everyone is eager to change their current unsatisfactory status quo, everyone wants to do something in this life to the cause, but some things in life are not so simple as we think, so easy. After all, successful people are always a few, most people lead their lives is often commonplace, without some success. So what is this life if we do not have great success, but as long as we are happy to be alive, and that is the greatest happiness.
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