Question

How to make a good impression for the first time? 用英语表述要回答的问题,急

Answer 1

First impressions can be quite important.Everyone stereotypes everyone on first impression,even if we are reluctant to do it.We all get a first impression of a new person that creates a mental image of his or her personality in our minds.That image of you often lasts and can affect the relationship that follows.Another thing is that we often play different roles in relationships.With our parents we play one role,with friends another,with someone we are interested in/in love with a third,when shopping for clothes in a store a fourth.And so on.
A good or great first impression can create a positive role in the minds of the new people we meet.When we meet them again,we are often drawn back into this role.Sometimes it happens almost unconsciously until you after a few minutes notice that you have fallen into your old role - like when you meet friends you haven?t seen in years - in that dynamic once again.You may not always be drawn into that role.But if you do it sure is better to have a positive than a negative role saved for you.
First oof all,act as if you are meeting a good friend.If you just imagine that the person you have just met and are talking to is one of your best friends you’ll probably adjust unconsciously and start to smile,open up your body-language to a very friendly and warm position and reduce any nervousness or weirdness in your tone of voice and body-language.Don?t overdo it though,you might not want to hug and kiss right away.
Secondly,keep you body language open.Smile.Don’t cross your arms or legs.Turn your body towards the people you’re are shaking hands with or talking to so that your body language is friendly and open.Make relaxed eye contact – don?t stare – when talking or listening.Don?t look the person in the eye all the time.When you break eye-contact try to do it kinda slow,don?t let your eyes just dart away.Making eye-contact can be a bit hard or scary but if you work at it you?ll get used to it.
Third,be positive.Sometimes you can go in all positive in a first meeting.Sometimes it may not be the best approach to go in too positive as it can be seen as bit abrasive or inappropriate.A better way to convey a positive attitude in a first meeting can then be to read the mood of person(s) before you start talking –by just watching them - and then match it for a short while.Then - when you have an emotional connection and the other person feels you are similar to him or her -you can let your positivity arise a bit more.Regardless if you start out positive from the get-go or a short,short while into the meeting,be sure to positive.If you,for instance,start a first meeting by complaining,there?s a big chance the people you meet will mentally label you as a complainer or a negative person.
Also,as long as you try to use the first and the last point it doesn’t really matter too much what word or phrase you use to start the conversation.The words are only 7 percent of your communication.93 percent is in your tone of voice and your body-language.
So,a simple “Hi!” may do just fine.