Question

What I can do in the future?

I had finished the examination which is necessary for applying the postgraduate students in USA. We all know this examination is called GRE. It is not a surprise that I had given up the chance to record my grade in the last mement in the exam since I have not prepared well.

There have be a year since I graduated from Huazhong Agriculture University and came to Wuhan University, even though that it is ture that Wuhan University is more better than Huazhong Agriculture University, unfortunitily, I have to say that Compare with the four years I had spent during my campus life, the past year is totally a failure. First of all, during the past year I had learned nothing but how to operate PCR and extract plasmid, while in the college life, I had learned how to communicate to other people and coordiate others in order to get the highest efficiency. Second, compare to my college students, even if that all of us are at the same level one year before, there is no doubt that other students, no matter people who went to work or went for further education are getting better development than me. This is not because of the poor condition of our lab, but also my indolence with my work and unresponsible about my future and life.

To remember my college life is a pleasure thing even if that I cannot ensure that the way I choose in the last year of my postgraduate life is right or not. I am not sure the belief I had hold on is really what I want in the future or what can realize my meaning of life.I always think that I am eager to be a researcher in the field of biology and I had tried my best to be a part of this realm so far as to change my major from food science to microbiology during the postgraduate examination. However, things are becoming stranger since I have came to recognize that the biological experiment and the people who engaged in this kind of work is far from the picture in my mind. It is hard for me to distinguish whehter it is the poor condition of our lab or the motive of learning biology isn't really fit my inner happiness lead to this result.

Now that I had giving up the GRE, to consider what I want to do and who I want to be is two important thing in front of me. But every time when I need to think about this question and are aware of the wrong decision I may had made in the past, my heart is filled with heavy pressure and terrible pain. I can not see the way in the future or the direction which lead me to the future. I wonder if a psychological consultation teacher can be helpful for me. My dear friends, Have you even come across this kinds of problems, if so, could you give me some advices? I am looking forward to your reply, thank you very much.

Answer 1

guy, I'm very sorry to hear that. However, I hope your life will be full of happiness. Concerning your experience, some suggestions for you.

Firstly, I find your future is subject to your interest, your thinking or your dream, we must face reality. When you decide to do something, you need to investigate it at first. If you know nothing about it, how could you understand its development prospect.

Secondly, do you ever think about it why you change your choice? I find you are looking for a good job which is simple and easy, maybe you haven't graduated from school, and don't understand the essence of social life. In fact, life is difficult whoever you are. We must be always ready for meeting the problems and challenge, including the bad condition.

Third, you guy, do you have the better life? Why do you always compare yourself with other students or people? Vanity isn't good for you. Just go your own way, others is none of your business.

Fourth, you must believe in yourself. You're a postgraduate student, a person of higher education, your future is bright. If you choose your direction, I'm sure you'll be excellent. So be confident in yourself.

Our suggestions are personal opinions, just for your reference only, you had better make a choice as soon as possible. According to your best idea and the need of realistic society, make up your decision. Finally, hope you pull the confusion through soon. Best wishes for you!

Answer 2

To remember my college life is a pleasure thing even if that I cannot ensure that the way I choose in the last year of my postgraduate life is right or not.

Answer 3

Who can tell me what can i do in the future?

Answer 4

you can do many things