Question

I cant tell you what to do

I cant tell you what to do
you will i think not listen to me
but i will say this i do not care if he is your first man to make love to you the sex has no meaning if he can not respect you and even worse he is not even trying to get things in common with you
you are right i live too far from you to be more than your friend
but i think you have noticed that i not only listen to you but try to think about what you are telling me
i am not sure he does that for you
i can not say i like him as a person
he is not as good as i am he might be better than me in every way except one
but that one is more important than anything else
thats the ability to care for others
but its so much more than that
i not only care for others but i do not see diffrences i try to see them for who they are and how we are the same
i see you friend has a lot of pain but it is wrong of him to put it all on you
that is why i do not like him

Answer 1

我可以告诉你怎么做I cant tell you what to do
你可能会想我没有听你的you will i think not listen to me
但我会说：我不在乎他是你的第一个男人，这没有任何意义，因为他不知道尊重你或者说他和你的生命没有交集but i will say this i do not care if he is your first man to make love to you the sex has no meaning if he can not respect you and even worse he is not even trying to get things in common with you
你是对的，我与你的生活距离太远，甚至无法成为你的朋友 you are right i live too far from you to be more than your friend
但我想你应该已经注意到：我不仅听你的，还总是猜想你在想我表达些什么but i think you have noticed that i not only listen to you but try to think about what you are telling me
我不确定他会这样为你做i am not sure he does that for you
我不能说我喜欢他i can not say i like him as a person
他没有我好，或许他比我好但是有一点除外：he is not as good as i am he might be better than me in every way except one
而这一点恰是最重要的，but that one is more important than anything else
也就是关心他人的能力thats the ability to care for others
然而还不止这样but its so much more than that
我不仅关心他人，还关心不同人的相同与不同之处i not only care for others but i do not see diffrences i try to see them for who they are and how we are the same
我看到你的朋友有很多痛苦，我认为他应该将他们都加给了你i see you friend has a lot of pain but it is wrong of him to put it all on you
这就是为什么我不喜欢他that is why i do not like him

纯手工翻译，呵呵~