Question

this is the very place which i'm wishingto live in

this is the very place which i'm wishingto live in
in which=where
this is the very place where i'm wishingto live
两个句子用得对不对，还有如果是that应怎么用

Answer 1

不对。只能用that。this is the very place that i'm wishingto live in。定语从句有几种情况只能用关系代词that引导
1、先行词被the very、the only、the same、the last修饰。题目就是这种情况
2、先行词被序数词或形容词最高级修饰
3、先行词被all、any、every、few、each、no、some等修饰
4、先行词是不定代词all、few、little、much、something、nothing、anything等
5、先行词既有人又有物时
6、在以who、which引起的问句中为避免重复，后面常用that引导定从

Answer 2

语法上用 where, which 和 that都没错，但 that 比较习惯：
This is the very place that I wish to live in.

另外，用 wish 比 am wishing 适合点。 后者意味着 “I am wishing at this very moment", but I may change my mind the very next moment.

还有， where 和 that 有一个区别，
where I wish to live 有 the very spot （准确地点）的意思， 而
that I wish to live 则有地方之意 （没那么准确）。

Answer 3

两个句子都对，that是 This is the very place that i'm wishingto live in.

Answer 4

用得不对．只能用that . This is the very place that I'm wishing to live in.