展开全部
教育学家认为，对孩子行为的不当干预，不仅会束缚孩子的求知欲，而且会挫伤孩子的自信心，对孩子的智力发展和人格形成都有不利的影响。
在家庭教育的过程中，父母不需要刻意约束孩子，把孩子管得越紧，孩子的压力就会越大。巴巴麻麻应起到帮助孩子、开导孩子、鼓励孩子的作用，孩子贪玩、好吃、粗鲁、任性，都属平常的举动，如果父母因此对孩子严加管柬，勉强孩子遵守各种规矩，往往会有不良的后果。
每一对年轻的父母都会在自己孩子的身上寄托着美好的期望，完全的“顺其自然”是不可能的，也是言不由衷的，我们当然也不可能免俗。
儿童往往没有能力要求过与大人不同的生活，不得不迁就大人的环境，因而在潜移默化中被教育成一个小大人，使这些孩子中规中矩，对父母百依百顺，也许这种不惹麻烦的孩子，是许多父母心目中的“好孩子”。可是长久下去，却夺走了孩子天真烂漫的本性，造成孩子软弱、依赖的性格，不利于孩子创造力的发挥。
家长们要明白，专制式的管教会使得孩子逆反心理很强，创新思维会受到压抑，以后离开了父母和老师的指导，很难有自己的想法，即使有自己的想法，也不太敢表达出来。巴巴麻麻，给孩子一些自由，让他们试着做主吧！
Education experts believe that the child's behavior inappropriate intervention, not only bound the child's curiosity, and would discourage the child's self-confidence, have an adverse impact on the formation of a child's intellectual development and personality.
In the process of family education, the parents do not deliberately constrained child, the child managed more closely, the greater the pressure on the child. Baba Ma Ma should play to help children, enlighten children, encourage children to role Kids fun, delicious, rude, self-willed, are considered normal behavior, if the parents so the child severely tube Cambodia, barely child compliance with the rules often have adverse consequences.
Each pair of young parents in their child's body will be entrusted with the good expectations, complete "go with the flow" is impossible, and it is insincere, of course we can not escape.
Children often do not have the ability to request and adults had a different life, had to accommodate an adult environment, which is imperceptibly into a small adult education, so that these children acceptable, obedience to parents, perhaps this is not troublesome child is that many parents mind, "good boy." But last long, but it took a child innocent nature, cause the child weak, dependent personality, creativity is not conducive to children to play.
在家庭教育的过程中，父母不需要刻意约束孩子，把孩子管得越紧，孩子的压力就会越大。巴巴麻麻应起到帮助孩子、开导孩子、鼓励孩子的作用，孩子贪玩、好吃、粗鲁、任性，都属平常的举动，如果父母因此对孩子严加管柬，勉强孩子遵守各种规矩，往往会有不良的后果。
每一对年轻的父母都会在自己孩子的身上寄托着美好的期望，完全的“顺其自然”是不可能的，也是言不由衷的，我们当然也不可能免俗。
儿童往往没有能力要求过与大人不同的生活，不得不迁就大人的环境，因而在潜移默化中被教育成一个小大人，使这些孩子中规中矩，对父母百依百顺，也许这种不惹麻烦的孩子，是许多父母心目中的“好孩子”。可是长久下去，却夺走了孩子天真烂漫的本性，造成孩子软弱、依赖的性格，不利于孩子创造力的发挥。
家长们要明白，专制式的管教会使得孩子逆反心理很强，创新思维会受到压抑，以后离开了父母和老师的指导，很难有自己的想法，即使有自己的想法，也不太敢表达出来。巴巴麻麻，给孩子一些自由，让他们试着做主吧！
Education experts believe that the child's behavior inappropriate intervention, not only bound the child's curiosity, and would discourage the child's self-confidence, have an adverse impact on the formation of a child's intellectual development and personality.
In the process of family education, the parents do not deliberately constrained child, the child managed more closely, the greater the pressure on the child. Baba Ma Ma should play to help children, enlighten children, encourage children to role Kids fun, delicious, rude, self-willed, are considered normal behavior, if the parents so the child severely tube Cambodia, barely child compliance with the rules often have adverse consequences.
Each pair of young parents in their child's body will be entrusted with the good expectations, complete "go with the flow" is impossible, and it is insincere, of course we can not escape.
Children often do not have the ability to request and adults had a different life, had to accommodate an adult environment, which is imperceptibly into a small adult education, so that these children acceptable, obedience to parents, perhaps this is not troublesome child is that many parents mind, "good boy." But last long, but it took a child innocent nature, cause the child weak, dependent personality, creativity is not conducive to children to play.
已赞过
已踩过<
评论
收起
你对这个回答的评价是？
推荐律师服务：
若未解决您的问题，请您详细描述您的问题，通过百度律临进行免费专业咨询
