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people  often talk as if shyness is a disease or mental condition that can be cured.I prefer to think of it as an emotional disability.It's something we are born with and something we carry with us our entire lives.Thereare too many people,however,who seem to be determined to find some way of doing away with their shyness.In my opinion,It's a waste of time.I don't mean that  we should do nothing about it;quite the contrary,I think we need to separate the basic fact of our shyness from our ability to function in a social environment.  Look at one of the most famous shy people of them all.Johnny Carson.This man is painfully shy,yet for decades he made a living talking and associating with different people very night,in front of a national audience.Carson has never done away with his shyness,but he has successfully found a way to deal with it to the extent that he could he,not just a talk show host, but a legend among talk show hosts. Look also at Sally Fields,who has recently admitted her problem with shyness.This is a woman who has appeared in many films,TV shows and interviews,yet in her early years she was so why that she turned down a lunch invitation from Jane Fonda because she was terribly afraid of meting her.  I guess that our shyness is there because each of us is born with some insecurity and this insecurity prevents us from reaching out to others the way people with a more open personality do.As we grow up and become adults,we have allowed our social skills to grow and develop. But we are still stuck in kindergarten or elementary school or wherever it was that our shyness first took root in our psyches.

Answer 1

人们常说，害羞是一种可以治愈的疾病或是精神障碍。我更愿意相信它是一种精神疾病。害羞是我们与生具有的，伴随着我们的生活。然而，许多人都努力通过各种办法来克服害羞。我的观点是，这是浪费时间。我并不是说对于害羞我们什么都不用做；恰恰相反，我认为我们需要将害羞这一事实与我们在社会生活中的能力分割开来。看看一位最著名的害羞者，强尼•卡森。这个人极度害羞，而他主持了十年生活秀节目，在深夜与不同的人交流，在全国观众面前，卡森从不掩饰他的害羞，但他有一种成功的方法来控制自己的害羞程度。不仅仅是一个谈话秀的主持人，而且成为了一名著名的谈话秀主持人。再看看 莎莉·菲尔德 ，她最近承认自己有害羞毛病。这是一位参演过很多电影、电视秀、访谈节目的女人，而在她早年由于害羞而谢绝了简方达共进午餐的邀请，因为她害怕与她会面。我猜测我们的害羞是因为我们每一个人与生具有的不安全感，这种不安全感阻碍了我们放开心扉接受他人。当我们长大成熟后，我们才允许我们增长自己的社交能力。但是我们依然被束缚在幼稚园或小学里，或是那个在我们心灵深处第一次出现害羞感的地方。

Answer 2

有人说害羞一种可以治愈的疾病，但我更相信它是一种情感残障。这是我们与生俱来并会伴随我们度过余生的东西。很大一部分人会找一些方法来掩盖自己容易害羞的毛病，在我看来，这简直是在浪费时间。我并不是说我们应该对其不管不顾，相反的，我认为我们应该将害羞与社交能力分开来。以一些有名的害羞的人为例吧：Johnny Carson。这个人非常的害羞，但是在数十年里，他每天晚上都与全国的听众探讨人生。Carson从不曾丢掉自己害羞的习惯，但是他找到了一种解决害羞的办法，从而使他不仅是一位脱口秀的主持人，而且是脱口秀主持人里面的佼佼者。同样的例子，我们来了解一下Sally Fields，她最近不得不承认自己的害羞。她在很多电影、电视节目及采访里面都出现过。她年轻的时候特别害羞，还因为怕见JaneFonda 而拒绝了她的午餐邀请。我猜想害羞的毛病总呆在我们身上，因为缺乏安全感总是伴随着我们每个人出生，而安全感的缺乏阻碍着我们以一个开怀的人的心态去做一些我们想做的事情。当我们长大成人时，我们的社交能力会有所进步，但是我们仍会被幼儿园之类的我们的害羞曾在哪里根深蒂固的地方所禁锢。