Question

What does she think about?她怎么想？

Answer 1

After experiecing almost three months podcasting, my little daughter spoke to me some words last morning. She said, dear my dad, could you help me? I want to continue to invest my investment. But I don't know how to enfull my money base. I forget it. I can't reach my goal, would you please help me? would yoy please teach me?

经历差不多三个月的直播共读，昨天上午孩子对我说：“爸爸帮帮我，我要拾起我的定投策略。我忘记怎么做了，教教我好吗？”

Off course I can. No problem thoroughly. I was very glad to hear that. She had lost her way for almost half a year. Why did she do like that? She lost her job before the New Year's Day in 2022. She has been trying her best to to find a job and to be better. Although working hard she was, she was failed.

当然可以，完全没问题。听了她的话我很高兴。她掉队近半年了。为什么呢？在2022年春节之前她失业了。她一直尽力做得更好、尽力找到工作。尽管十分努力，可总是失败。

I've ever suggested her not to give up anything. Because of no salaries income to support, she had to gave up all objects but live to survive. I wanted to give her some help. I wanted to lend her some money to pass her difficulties, she  refused me. She said, I don't believe that I can't feed myself. I must live better and better by myself. I agreed with her in silence.

我曾经建议她不要放弃。但因为失去了工资收入，她不得不为了生存而放弃了其它所有。我想要给她一些帮助，想要给她一些钱以度过难关，她拒绝了。她说：“我不信我不能养活我自己。我必须要生活得更好”。我默许。

I can only saw her hardworking lonely but doing nothing. I thought that she is my love, I can't leave her lonely. I can do something with her together. I invited her to hold a podcasting to read Xiaolai Li's book every morning. She accepted my invitation. Day after day, nearly 100 days past. She is getting better and better.  She got her job again last month. She is happy. I am happy, too.

眼看着她独自奋斗我却什么也帮不上。我想，她是我的宝贝，我不能让她孤军奋战。我可以和她一起做些什么。我邀请她每天早上一起直播共读笑来老师的书。她接受了我的邀请。日子一天天过去，差不多有100天了吧？她变得越来越棒。上个月她又获得了一份工作，她很快乐，我也很快乐。

You never mind how happy I am. Seeing my own daughter is on her way future, I feel like the world is changing better. Everywhere is full of sunshine.

你不会感觉到我有多么开心。看见自己的女儿正阔步走向未来，我感觉这世界真美，处处充满阳光。

The same as my mother looking me as her most important person. When I met something difficult, she was very sad. When I got something right, she was very pleased.

就像妈妈重视我一样：我困难她就难过；我顺利她就快乐。

This is the reason why accompaying families must be the most important thing for us. There are always several person who are our relatives pay more attention on us than the other else. Our lives are always related with them. We are their most people in their lives. We must cherish them.

The best way to cherish our families is to grow with them together. We learn, we speak, we think, we love,  we read books, we do our workouts, we invest our investments, we help our good friends... We do most important things with our families together. We will gain much and loss little.

珍惜的最好方法是和他们一起成长。和他们一起学习、一起聊天、一起思考、一起爱恨、一起读书、一起健身、一起投资做一件事、一起帮朋友……我们和家人们一起做最重要的事。我们将失去的少，得到的多。

Actually, who will focus on you? People who look you as the most important will always focus on you. They care about you. They concentrate on you. Seeing you are growing, they are happy. They love you.

事实上，谁会关注你呢？那些把你看得最重要的人会关注你。他们操心你，他们把注意力放在你身上。看着你成长，他们内心欢喜。他们爱你。

You love somebody, you care about him/her. simultaneously, we love to do something, we will try our best to do it better and more perfective. So, the more you love, the more you happy and the better you can do. Attitudes make us do our choice. Choices decide which way we will go. Direction that we want to reach decide how far we can go through.

你爱他/她，你就在乎他/她。同样地，我们爱做某件事情，我们就会尽力把它做到更好，更完美。爱得越多，干得越开心，也就做得越好。态度决定选择，选择决定方向，方向决定我们能走多远。

Love what I do. Do what I love.

爱我所做，做我所爱。