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Friends play an important part in our lives, and although we may take the fact of friendship for granted, we often don’t clearly understand how we make friends. While we get on well with a number of people, we are usually friends with only a very few---for example, the average among students is about 6 per person.
Moreover, a great many relationships come under the general term “friendship.” In all cases, two people like one anther and enjoy being together, but beyond that, the degree of closeness between them and the reasons for their interest in each other vary greatly.
At the beginning, much depends on how people meet, and on good first impressions. As we get to know people, we consider things like age, race, looks, economic and social status, and intelligence. Although these factors are not of the greatest importance, it is more difficult to have a good relationship with people when there is a big difference in age and background.
We pay attention to actual behavior, facial expression, and the way a person speaks. Friends will stand closer together and soft voices also express friendliness, and it is because they may give the wrong signals that shy people often have difficulty in making friends. A friendly look with the wrong facial expression can turn into an unfriendly stare, and nervousness may be wrongly understood as unfriendliness. People who do not look one in the eye are not trusted when, in fact, they simply do not have confidence.
Some relationships are a result of argument and discussion, but it is usual for close friends to have the same ideas and beliefs, the same opinions and interests---they often talk about “being on the same wavelength.” The more closely involved people become, the more they depend on one another. People want to do friends favors and hate to let them down. Equally, friends have to learn to make allowances for each other, to put up with annoying habits, and to accept differences in opinion. Imagine going on a long trip with someone you occasionally meet for a drink！
In contrast with marriage, there are no friendship ceremonies to strengthen the relationship between two people. But the mutual support and understanding that results from shared experiences and emotions does seem to create a close and lasting relationship, which can overcome differences in background, and break down barriers of age, class or race.全文翻译，请不要用翻译工具

Answer 1

朋友在我们的生活中扮演一个重要部分，并且，虽然我们也许采取友谊事实为授予，我们不清楚地经常了解怎么我们交朋友。 当我们很好成功与很多人时，我们通常是朋友与非常仅少数---例如，平均在学生之中每人约为6。 而且，伟大许多关系受到一般用语“友谊”。 在所有的情况下，二个人象一花药和喜欢一起是，但在那之外，程度严紧在他们和他们的兴趣的原因之间在彼此很大地变化。 在开始，取决于关于怎样人们见面和好第一次印刷。 当我们知道人，我们考虑事象年龄，赛跑，神色、经济和社会地位和智力。 虽然这些因素不是重要性，有a是更加困难的 与人的好关系，当有一大年龄差别和背景。 我们注意实际行为，表情，并且人讲话的方式。 朋友将一起站立更加紧密，并且软的声音也表达友善，并且它是，因为他们也许给错误信号害羞的人民经常有困难在交朋友。 友好的神色以错误表情可能把变成不友好的凝视，并且神经质也许错误地被了解作为含有敌意。 居于谁不看一在眼睛没有被信任，当，实际上，他们没简单地有信心。 有些关系是论据的结果和讨论，但它是通常的为了亲密的朋友能有同一想法和信仰、同样观点和兴趣---他们经常谈论“在同一个波长”。 越严密介入的人民成为，越多他们依靠互相。 人们想要做朋友厚待和恨让他们下来。 相等地，朋友必须学会做容限为彼此，到被忍耐的讨厌的习性和到受理区别以观点。 想象继续一次长的旅行与某人您为饮料偶尔地见面! 与婚姻对比，没有加强二个人之间的关系的友谊仪式。 但相互支持和了解从共有的经验和情感的结果似乎创造接近和持久的关系，在背景中可能克服区别，和划分年龄、类或者种族障碍。

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Answer 2

朋友在我们的生活中扮演着重要角色，尽管我们有时把友谊当成理所当然的事情，但我们却不甚了解如何去交朋友。当我们和很多人交好的同时，我们通常只是和非常少的几个人在交朋友---比如说，每个学生交的朋友的平均数量是6个。
此外，许多种关系都被归入友谊这个术语之下。在任何情形下，两人爱慕彼此并享受在一起的时光，但是在此以外，他们的亲密程度和对彼此有兴趣的原因是大不相同的。
起初，许多是取决于人们如何相见以及彼此的第一印象。当我们逐渐了解别人后，我们开始考虑一些诸如年龄，种族，外貌，经济，社会地位和智力的问题。尽管这些因素不是那么的重要，但是和一个在年龄和背景上与你很大差别的人有一段较好的关系也是很难的。
我们关注一个人的实际行为、面部表达和说话方式。朋友之间应该站得更近并且温和的声音也能传达友谊，或许是因为他们发出了错误的讯号以至于害羞的人通常在交朋友方面有困难。一个有着错误的面部表达的友好的表情可能会变成一个不友好的凝视，并且不安的情绪有时也会被错误地理解为不友好。那些不注意眼神交流的人在他们事实上只是没有自信的情况下也会不被人相信。
一些关系是争论和讨论的结果，但是对很亲近的朋友来说，有相同的想法、信仰、观念和爱好是很常见的，即他们所说的志趣相投。参与其中的人变得越亲近，他们对彼此的依赖越多。人们想要帮助朋友并且不愿意让他们失望。同样地，朋友之间也必须学会彼此忍让，去忍受那些令人烦恼的习惯，并且去接受在观点上的不同。想象和一个你偶然喝酒时遇见的人一起去一个很长的旅行。（这句有点突兀）
和婚姻想比，没有友谊纪念典礼来增强两人间的友谊。但是由共同分享的经历和感情产生出的相互的支持和理解的确像是创造了一段亲近和长久的关系，这种关系可以克服在背景上的差异打破年龄阶级和种族的隔阂。