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old friends are like zhe.The first time you meet someone, in the first moment you form an impression in
your mind of that person. Your reactions to other people, however, are really
just barometers for how you perceive yourself. Your reactions to others say
more about you than they do about others. You cannot really love or hate about
yourself. We are usually drawn to those who are most like us and tend to
dislike those who display those aspects of ourselves that we dislike.
Therefore, you can allow others to be the mirror to illuminate more clearly
your own feelings of self-worth. Conversely, you can view the people you judge
negatively as mirrors to show you what you are not accepting about yourself.
To coexist peacefully with others, you will need to learn tolerance. A big
challenge is to shift your perspective radically from judgment of other to a
lifelong exploration of yourself. Your task is to assess all the decisions,
judgments you make onto others and to begin to view them as clues to how you
can heal yourself and become whole.
I recently has a business lunch with a man who displayed objectionable table
manners. My first reaction was to judge him as offensive and his table manners
as disgusting. When I noticed that I was judging him, I stopped and asked
When you approach life in this manner, those with whom you have the greatest
grievances as well as those you admire and love can be seen as mirrors,
guiding your to discover parts of yourself that you reject and to embrace your
greatest quality.
old friends are like zhe.The first time you meet someone, in the first moment you form an impression in
your mind of that person. Your reactions to other people, however, are really
just barometers for how you perceive yourself. Your reactions to others say
more about you than they do about others. You cannot really love or hate about
yourself. We are usually drawn to those who are most like us and tend to
dislike those who display those aspects of ourselves that we dislike.
Therefore, you can allow others to be the mirror to illuminate more clearly
your own feelings of self-worth. Conversely, you can view the people you judge
negatively as mirrors to show you what you are not accepting about yourself.
To coexist peacefully with others, you will need to learn tolerance. A big
challenge is to shift your perspective radically from judgment of other to a
lifelong exploration of yourself. Your task is to assess all the decisions,
judgments you make onto others and to begin to view them as clues to how you
can heal yourself and become whole.
I recently has a business lunch with a man who displayed objectionable table
manners. My first reaction was to judge him as offensive and his table manners
as disgusting. When I noticed that I was judging him, I stopped and asked
When you approach life in this manner, those with whom you have the greatest
grievances as well as those you admire and love can be seen as mirrors,
guiding your to discover parts of yourself that you reject and to embrace your
greatest quality.
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像酒行么:Friends are like wine: the older, the better. The longer you get along with your friends, the close your relationships are. I have a friend who I met in junior high school. He studies well and he is also very kind to help students with difficulities on course works. He is the teacher's assistant and well liked by both teachers and students. Beyond school works, he is also good at sports. He likes playing basketball and badminton. He is absolutely the "Prince charming" for girls in my school since he is so perfect. It is my honour to know him and to be his friend. Our relationship is firm and long lasting. Even we don't see each other often after our graduation, our friendship lasts and appears even closer than before. Friends are like wine: the older, the better.
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