Question

You are what you choose

Answer 1

My old junior clasamate has a son. After the boy was born,his mother left his father and married another young man.

Maybe the boy's birth is a mistake.Because his father is 19 years older than his mother. It's a love story between a cook and a waitress. But the result was not beautiful. As the girl's parents were strongly against their marrige,they insisted their daughtet was worth a better husband. They abandoned the new baby. So my old classmate had to take his baby son to our hometown and asked his mother to look after this baby.

From a baby to a 4-grade pupil, the little boy is always staying with his grandmother, a nearly 75-year-old woman. He helps his grandmother do chores , buy some small household and so on. His biggest happiness is to see his father come back. Once he hears his father is coming back, he will wait on the street outside his home until his father back. If not, he will kneel down and beg. This situation makes all the neighbour feel sorry for this little boy.

SO yesterday when I found my old classmate appear on the Tiktok, I advised him to phone his son as often as possible instead of spending so much time on Tiktok. But he said he had his own reason unknown to us.

You are what you choose. The life you are living now is the result that you chose. We must find out it is what you want  or your children want.

So many parents go to big cities for giving a better life to their children,leaving their kids at home. They have earned a lot of money, do change children's life, but their children have lost their childhood, their laughter and they close the door of their heart, too. Just as my classmate's son ,he knelt and begged, but his father could neither see nor hear him.

I really feel soory for this little boy.