Question

求英语大神翻译

Enright said it hit her hard that when her first child,Will，left for college in 1996.'the first one out of thenest leave a hole in your family,'she said.'at your next family dinner,there's a big space missing.' kids returning for holiday breaks or summer vacation notice changs made in their absence.comparing his bedroom at home to that of his dorm room.son tim enright told his parents,'i can't believe how big our bedroom is.' she remembers her own college days and her mother's wanting not to run up the phong bill. 'she used to say'just wirte a letter.'' enright encourages phone calls nd suggests that when the kids phone home,'give them time to talk.' she's noticed a difference in e-mails from the college kids. her daughter,molly,'would giveme all the details,'she said.but the soon she realize will was different.she'd e-mail him,saying,'i have three questions.answer tes or no.' true to form,he'd e-mail back,'1.yes,2.not,3.yes.talk to you this weekend.' parents shouldn't feel hurt if,on move-in day,their children shoo（用“嘘”声赶走）them out the door once they've put things in order in their dorm room,enright said .'as soon as the last thing was done,i could see in their eyes that they're on to the next thing .i knew i was on longer needed here,'she said. for many parents,college means the first time they don't know who their children's friends are.when tim and marilyn enright visited the college,they got to know their children's new friends by visiting them tojoin the family for pizza or a picnic before a football game. enright said that,busy as they were in college,her four children understood what their absences meant on the home front. one of them told her,'you know ,mom,it's kind of sad.our family is never going to live together again.' but the sadness is balanced by something positive. 'everyone of them just loves the time we all have together .our kids enjoy being together,'enright said. i believe in saying there're two important gifts we give our childre roots and wings,'she said.'during life,there comes a certain time for everything.we've our jobs with the roots,amd then we give them wings to go off try it on their own .' the right balance of roots and wings makes a parent prond.

Answer 1

恩特（Enright）说，她的第一个孩子威尔（Will）于1996年离开大学时，她受了重伤。“当时的第一个孩子在您的家庭中留下了一个空洞，”她说。 。”孩子们休假回来或放暑假通知在他们不在时发生了变化。将家里的卧室与宿舍的卧室进行比较。蒂姆·恩特里对儿子父母说：“我不敢相信我们的卧室有多大。”她记得自己上大学的日子，母亲想不想花很多钱。 “她过去常常说'只是写一封信'。”鼓励电话打来，并建议孩子们打电话回家时，给他们时间说话。她注意到大学生发送的电子邮件有所不同。她说，她的女儿莫莉会给我所有细节。但是她很快意识到会有所不同。她会给他发电子邮件，说，“我有三个问题。回答是还是否。”确实如此，他会回信说：“ 1。是，2。不是，3。是，这个周末与您聊天。”父母说，如果在入住当天，他们的孩子在宿舍里整理好东西后，将他们赶出门，父母就不会感到受伤。她说，最后一件事已经做完了，我在他们的眼中可以看到他们正在处理下一件事。我知道我在这里需要的时间更长。对于许多父母来说，大学意味着他们第一次不知道自己的孩子的朋友是谁。当蒂姆和玛丽莲·恩特（Marilyn Enright）上这所大学时，他们通过拜访他们的家人去比萨或野餐来认识他们的孩子的新朋友。足球游戏。恩特（Enright）说，忙着上大学，她的四个孩子明白了他们缺席对家庭的影响。他们中的一个告诉她，“妈妈，这真让人难过。我们的家人再也不会生活在一起了。”但是悲伤可以通过积极的事情来平衡。 “他们每个人都喜欢我们在一起的时光。我们的孩子喜欢在一起，” enright说。她说：“我相信要说有两个重要的礼物，我们给我们的孩子扎根和翅膀。在生活中，有一定的时间来做所有的事情。我们扎根工作，然后给他们提供翅膀。自行尝试一下。”根部和翅膀的正确平衡使之成为母体。

Answer 2

恩赖特说这给她重重的T.