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在现代社会中,良好的人际关系对于一个人的发展是至关重要的,这一点相信在场的人都知道.而正是因为它的重要,所以我们经常被告知,要跟老师,同学等等人打好交道,要广交朋友.在很多时候,这种说法并没有错,但是在大学里,交朋友的性质似乎在发生着变化,变的功利起来.就有许多的书籍上这样告诉我们,要分清哪些人是可以深交的,哪些人只能是点头之交,要跟有能力的人交朋友.这种说法在我看来就是功利性的一种表现,就好像我们跟一个人交友,只是因为他对我们以后的发展有用,只是因为他对我们的未来有价值.
在我参加过的一个社团的面试中,有这样一个问题,他问,在与朋友的相处中,谈话的过程中,你是想成为引导者,还是被引导者?而我认为，既然是朋友,那大家应该是平等的,不应该存在引导者和被引导者之分,如果存在,那这两个人就不是朋友,而是上下级的关系了.另一方面,一个人如果是引导者的话,那他的能力至少应该是比我们强的.我想,不会有太多的人想跟一个老是指手画脚的人相处的.我想说,跟一个能力强的人相处没有错,但如果是违背了自己内心的想法,并且对一比自己差的人不屑一顾的话,那就不可取了.
在我们很多人的心中，都有这样一个问题,那就是虽然朋友越来越多,但能真正说心里话的,能真正敞开心扉的,没有多少个,甚至于没有,因为总有这样那样的顾忌.在高中时代,学生还没有受到社会的太大影响,同学间的关系是纯真的,友谊的获得往往是不经意间的,而不是刻意去弄的,没有利益关系.往往这时候的友谊是最让人难忘的.我很庆幸在高中,我能有一个无话不说的朋友,我们经常联系,他有什么开心,烦心事都会跟我说,而我也一样.这让我很高心,因为我知道我们的友谊是双向的,他把我当好朋友,而我也一样.我这个同学跟我说，他碰到了类似我上面所说的问题.他说,虽然跟很多同学相处的很好,有说有笑,但内心依然孤独.
我对他说,放心吧,那只是因为我们刚上大学不久,还不熟悉而已.这句话也是我对自己说的.我想,在之前是我太消极了,又或者是因为带着有色的眼睛来看待周围,所以才会觉的有这样或那样的问题.不管怎么说,大学毕竟跟高中是不一样的,获得友谊的方式已经变化了,更多是的靠自己的寻找.这一点我们应该坚持.我相信,大学的坏是人的坏,而大学的好也是因为人的好,只要是真诚的,我和你,就一定会成为朋友.

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Answer 1

In modern society,good interpersonal relationship isimportant for one's future. I believe that all you here know it.And we are often informed to get along well with teachers,classmates and others for the sake of its importance.In many cases,this opinion is not wrong.But in university,the goal of making friends seems to become utilitarian.
From lots of books,we can get to know to deal with the different relations to different people and especially to fawn on those capable.In my view,that is a very utilitarian behavior,because we want to make friends just for make the most of them.
Once,I was asked in a interview like,"in the conversation with your friend,you prefer to lead it or to be leaded?" I answered"since we are friends,we are always equal.There is on boundary between to lead and to be leaded.If that exist,we are like superior and subordinate more than friends.Besides,if someone is the leader,he must be more capable than me.But I think there is not many who want to be to blame frequently.What I want to say is that if someone is not loyal to himself or look down on those less capable,that is too bad.There is always a problem inside that we have more and more friends,but less and less closed friends.That is because we consider too much.In high school,students are little affected by the society.Their friendship is very pure,very innocent and very simple.That is what the real friendship is.I am so lucky that I had a 5-star friend in high school.We still keep in touch frequently now.Whenever he feels annoyed,he will tell me firstly.And I do the same.That makes me feel very satisfied,because I know that is the real friendship.But he told me that he met the problem as I said:he has many friends,but he feels still lonely deep inside.
I persuade him to take it easy.That is because we are newcomers in university,so that we don't know the rules.That is what I want to say to myself too.I think I was too depressed before to avoid many problems.However,university is too different from high school.The way we get friendship is changed.We should insist on it.I think as long as you are honest,we can surely be friends one day.