Question

请帮我翻译这段英文

一个人最大的缺点，
不是自私、多情、野蛮、任性，
而是偏执地爱一个不爱自己的人。

顺便请在给我一点类似的英文文段

Answer 1

A person's biggest shortcoming is not selfishness, sentimentality, crudeness, and willfulness but to be paranoid as to hold the torch for someone.

即使在同一座小小的城市，也不曾在相逢
某一天，某一刻，走在同一条街也看不到对方
先是感叹，后是无奈
也许你很幸福
因为你找到另一个适合自己的人
也许你不幸福
因为可能这一生就只有那个人真正用心在你身上
很久，很久，没有对方的消息
不再想起那个人，也不再想起那些事

Failing to come across you even in such an identical & small city
Failing to spot you in the identical street, at that moment, on that day
Myriads of thoughts are welling up in their mind, there are no alternatives
Maybe you are blessed
Maybe you have found your Mr Right
Or … maybe you are miserable
because that person might be the one who is truly infactuated with you
It has been a long time without hearing from him
You have not thought of him and reminiscences of those things in the past are awaken no more.

有些事一转身就一辈子了.
There are things in life, once you walk away, it is a life time

说好永远的，不知怎么就散了。最后自己想来想去竟然也搞不清当初是什么原因分开彼此的。然后，你忽然醒悟，感情原来是这么脆弱的。经得起风雨，却经不起平凡；风雨同船，天晴便各自散了。也许只是赌气，也许只是因为小小的事。幻想着和好的甜蜜，或重逢时的拥抱，那个时候会是边流泪边捶打对方，还傻笑着。该是多美的画面。
It was vowed to be eternity, and was separated, leaving you bewildered. How fragile is the emotion! People can stand hardships but fail to meet ordinary challenges; they share the same boat in the storm and yet each walks their own path when the sun shines again. Sulking or other trivial things may be the triggers. Fantasizing the sweetness of reconciliation or the hugs of reunion, with lovers thumbing each other with tears and giggles on their faces. What a beautiful sight