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In the old day, children were familiar with birth and death as part of life. This is perhaps the first generation of American youngsters（年轻人）who have never been close by during the birth of a baby and have never experienced the death of a family member.

Nowadays when people grow old, we often send them to nursing homes. When they get sick, we transfer them to a hospital, where children are forbidden to visit terminally ill patients-even when those patients are their parents. This deprives（剥夺）the dying patient of significant family members during the last few days of his life and it deprives the children of an experience of death, which is an important learning experience.

Some of my colleagues and I once interviewed and followed approximately 500 terminally ill patients in order to find out what they could teach us and how we could be of more benefit, not just to them but to the members of their families as well. We are most impressed by the fact that even those patients who were not told of their serious illness were quite aware of its potential outcome.

It is important for family members, and doctors and nurses to understand these patients' communications in order to truly understand their needs, fears, and fantasies（幻想）. Most of our patients welcomed another human being with whom they could talk openly, honestly, and frankly about their trouble. Many of them shared with us their tremendous need to be informed, to be kept up-to-date on their medical condition and to be told when the end was near. We found out that patients who had been dealt with openly and frankly were better able to cope with the approach of death and finally to reach a true stage of acceptance prior to death

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在以前，孩子们熟悉的出生率和死亡率作为生活的一部分。这也许是第一代的美国年轻人（年轻人）谁从来没有关闭期间出生的婴儿和没有经历过死亡的一名家庭成员。

如今当人们变老，我们往往把他们送到养老院。当他们生病了，我们转移到一家医院，那里的儿童被禁止访问绝症患者，即使这些病人他们的父母。这使（剥夺）临终病人的重要家庭成员在过去几天他的生活和它剥夺了儿童的经验死亡，这是一项重要的学习经验。

我的一些同事和我曾经采访后，大约500名绝症患者，以便找出他们可以教我们，以及我们如何能够更多的利益，而不仅仅是他们，而是及其家庭成员的。我们印象最深刻的是，即使是那些病人谁没有被告知其严重的疾病是相当了解其潜在的结果。

这是非常重要的家庭成员，以及医生和护士了解这些病人的沟通，以真正了解他们的需要，恐惧，幻想（幻想） 。我们的大多数患者欢迎另一个人同他们交谈可以公开，诚实，坦率地对他们麻烦。他们中的许多人同我们分享他们的巨大需要被告知，要跟上最新的医疗条件，被告知年底时已接近。我们发现，患者谁已处理公开和坦率能够更好地应付办法的死亡并最终达到一个真正的阶段之前，接受死亡