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如何正确的对待人生中的坎坷

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回想起过去的日子可谓感慨颇多,这些年可谓经历过人生的大喜与大悲.曾经生活的落魄,家庭的变故,求学路上的不顺心.使我的容颜也变得越发苍老了许多,头发也掉了不少.以至于有许多老同学,朋友看到我说我二十来岁的人看上去像三四十岁一样.是呀,自己也感觉自己老了许多.以前的我,风光过,颓废过,也痛苦过.尽管有种种的不如意跟随着我,但我从来没有屈服过,仍然坚持着自己的信念,理想与人生追求. 虽然自己的路走得比较坎坷,遇到了这样那样的困难与挫折,但在人生的磨难面前我从来没有低过头.而且还越发变得成熟起来. 我总觉得:磨难有如一种锻炼,一方面消耗了大量体能,一方面却又强身健骨.我认为,对待磨难有两种态度:一种是主动迎接,一种是被动承受.主动迎接磨难的人,在忍受磨难的痛苦时,内心多是坦然的,磨难使我们好像刀剑磨出锋芒;被动承受磨难的人,在为磨难所煎熬时,内心多是不自在,不坦然充满惶惑的,这时候磨难使我们仿佛卵石愈见圆滑. 我认为:就人生而言,总是从平坦中获得的教益少,从磨难中获得的教益多;从平坦中获得的教益浅,从磨难中获得的教益深........... 因此,若想做一个非常平凡的人,则是磨难少一些更好;若是想做一个出类拔萃的人则不妨多经历些磨难. 我还认为:一个人的容颜往往和磨难成反比,一个人的魅力往往和磨难成正比. 磨难能使人优秀. 如果既想成为优秀又想远避磨难,这种情况几乎是不可能的.......... 想想人生短短数十载,生命,不是活给别人看的,他是一朵花,静静的开又悄悄的落,有阳光和水分就能够按照自己的方式去生长.我们的十指应该平平整整的去伸直,不能说因为伤痛我们就畏缩起来........... 对待磨难,我一直坚信,年轻时多一些坎坷的经历和艰难的跋涉对人是有益的.它不但可以磨砺人的意志,锻炼人的体魄,强化人的毅力,而且在将来成功时,还会使人懂得成功来之不易,会感到更加的舒心和甜蜜,从而会更加珍惜今天的生活,这也是我当初为什么选择去部队锻炼自己的其中一个原因............ 尽管,在以后的人生旅途中会有许多的磨难等着我.但我仍然相信,我会踏平坎坷,不折不饶地从容面对困难与挫折!! In the black and white drawing above， a youth gravely contemplates a narrow winding path heading into a forest. Perhaps he thinks that his own future may be much like this path； full of bends and curves， thorns and traps. The road to success is never anything but uneven and difficult. In fact， one could even say that the more successful one's life is， the more problems and hardships one must have overcome. The ability to work through difficult situations and unfortunate events only makes one stronger and more capable. Given that the road to happiness always contains obstacles and setbacks， we should be well prepared for the hardships that life inevitably brings， and abandon the idea that life is smooth or easy. We must accept the fact that failures are unavoidable， whether they are failures in examinations， in finding a job， or carrying out a task. People who accept that their life will not always be simple or calm are better able to handle problems when they arise. Those who are upset by each and every small setback - and there are many people with such attitudes- do not have much potential. Failure is mother to success as it can strengthen one's will. Those who can draw lessons from failure are destined for success. 译文： 在上面黑白的图画中，一个年轻人严肃地凝望着前方蜿蜒曲折通向森林的小路。也许他想到了自己的未来就像这条小路一样，充满曲折、荆棘和陷阱。通向成功之路从来都是艰辛和不平坦的。 事实上，甚至可以说一个人的人生越成功，那他必须战胜的艰难和困苦就会越多。在困境和不幸中奋进的能力，只会让一个人更坚强，更有才干。既然通向幸福的道路总是会有障碍和挫折的话，那么我们就应该为生命中无法避免的艰难做好充分准备，而放弃认为生命意味着平稳和安逸的想法。我们必须接受这个事实——失败是不可避免的，而无论它是考试失利、求职受挫还是工作失败。人们如果承认他们的生活并不总是单纯和平静的，他们就会在问题出现的时候处理得更好，而那些出现一点挫折就心烦意乱的人——很多人持有这样的生活态度——没有太大的潜力。失败是成功之母在于它能增强一个人的意志。那些能从失败中吸取教训的人是注定会成功的。 It is everyone's wish to have things go their way. Yet the journey throughlife is not always the case and we should be prepared for the twists and turns it offers us. This is certainly the case as shown in the cartoon. Twists and turns are a part of life and setbacks often happen. For many reasons， we often have to encounter failure in a complex society. No one can avoid or escape these unexpected changes in our daily lives； however， failure may be aroute toward success. This causes us to reflect about what happened and as a result we build up and accumulate experience. We are then more likely to come up with a possible solution， and so twists and turns can turn into treasures. Edison，for instance， the inventor of the electric light bulb， made hundreds of models that failed before he came up with the right one. In general it is failure that encourages us to work harder which eventually leads to success. Twists and turns in life are unavoidable and are not always bad. We should have a more optimistic view on life and try to make the most of it and draw lessons from the bumps and turns along the way. 译文： 每个人都希望生活一帆风顺。但是，人生旅途并非永远如此，正像画中所描绘那样，我们应该对生活中的曲折和坎坷做好准备。这正是这幅图画所描述的。 挫折与坎坷也是生活中的一部分，逆境时有发生。出于许多原因，在复杂的社会中我们经常要面对失败。没有人能够避免和逃脱日常生活不期而遇的变故。然而，失败往往是通向成功之路。因为失败会引发我们更多的思考，我们也会因此而积累更多的经验。之后，我们就会更容易地找到解决问题的方法。因此，挫折与坎坷也是人生的财富。例如，电灯的发明者爱迪生在他成功之前曾经经历过成百上千次的失败。总的来说，正是失败才使我们加倍努力工作，最后取得成功。 人生中的挫折与坎坷是不可避免的，但它们并非总是坏事。我们应该用更加乐观的态度对待生活，并充分加以利用，从挫折中吸取教训。