Nowadays, teaching at home has been a hot topic. With the increasing
number of high educated people have become parents, the teaching at home
trend has become more common. However, when it comes to this matter,
different people have different views. Some people think teaching at
home could strengthen the parent-child contact, while others think child
have better live in the community. For me, I vote for the latter.
翻译:
现在,在家教学成为了热点话题。随着高等教育的人们成为父母的数量增多,在家教育的潮流也变得越来越普遍。然而,每当说到这个话题,不同的人有不同的意见。有些人认为在家教育能够增强亲子联系,然而有些人认为孩子还是该生活在大群体里。对我来说,我同意后者。
溺爱孩子的问题已经常见的这些日子里。随着经济的发展,技术,完善的生活变得越来越好。作为一个结果,现在的孩子们正经历着越来越多的享受。他们的父母会给我无限的津贴,以满足他们,鼓励他们的孩子更加努力学习。因此。孩子们将以“小公主”和“小首领“在今天的社会。结果,这绝对不是我们愿意看到的。孩子会从我们社会的未来,这是很重要的,训练他们独立判断目标以及责任感而不是懒惰。父母应该意识到问题的严重性,很快,开始采取行动来拯救自己的孩子。否则,我们的社会将会最终走向一个方向,每个人都不希望面对。
number of high educated people have become parents, the teaching at home
trend has become more common. However, when it comes to this matter,
different people have different views. Some people think teaching at
home could strengthen the parent-child contact, while others think child
have better live in the community. For me, I vote for the latter.
现在,在家教学成为了热点话题。随着高等教育的人们成为父母的数量增多,在家教育的潮流也变得越来越普遍。然而,每当说到这个话题,不同的人有不同的意见。有些人认为在家教育能够增强亲子联系,然而有些人认为孩子还是该生活在大群体里。对我来说,我同意后者。
On
the one hand, although parents are highly educated, but it doesn't mean
that they are qualified to teach their child very good. Teaching is not
only the thing to tell some new knowledge to child and ask them to keep
it in mind. The most important thing is how to teach. Teachers were
trained to find the best way to teach students, and they will customized
study solutions according to each students’ personality.
从一方面来说,尽管父母受过高等教育,但这不意味着他们有能力教好孩子。教学不单单只是告诉孩子一些新知识,然后让他们记在脑里。最重要的是如何去教。老师都是受过训练的,他们知道怎样能够最好的教育孩子,还有他们会根据学生的个性制定合适的学习方案。
On
the other hand, as most parents both have to work to support a family,
they put their principal energy to work, and left less for their kid.
This will make parents completely exhausted and surely the kid cannot
receive the best education. Moreover, teaching at home make kid isolated
from other kids at their same age, it will causes kid’s communication
problems with friends or strangers.
另一方面,很多父母都要去工作养家,他们大部分的精力都用在工作上了,只留下了少量的给孩子。这会让父母相当的筋疲力尽,还有很肯定的是,这样孩子无法接受到最好的教育。还有,在家教学让孩子和他同龄的孩子隔绝了,这会让孩子在和朋友和陌生人有交流上的问题。
In briefly, teaching at home is not good for children’s all-round
development, for the sake of parents’ rest time and children’s
integrated development, children should be sent to school.
简言之,在家教学不利于孩子的全面发展,为了能让父母好好休息,孩子能够全面发展,孩子还是该送去学校读书的。
在家教育不但避免了学校单一的教育模式,还有利于培养孩子多元发展。
02 一般来说,“在家教育”模式让人最担心的是孩子离开学校,像被孤立的群体一样,失去朋友、与社会脱节。
但部分研究者和家长们认为,在家教育的优点之一就是培养人际关系。由于不用到学校念书,家长可以为孩子安排了很多活动。
例如:游学、运动、参加比赛、参观博物馆、公益劳动等等,使孩子们接触到不同的人和事,更有机会去不同的地方,获得更多的人生体验。
让自己的孩子经常与邻居的孩子在一起,到社会上当义工,带孩子参加朋友的聚会,社会活动并不少。
Children are under great pressure to study in school, and only pay attention to further studies and achievements. The school's education model is single and rigid, ignoring children's healthy physical and mental growth and diversified development.
According to the data of American education department, the number of homeschooling is increasing year by year in the United States, where about 3%~4% of children receive full or partial home schooling.
In some countries, such as the Philippines and Israel, homeschooling has been accepted by the government, and there are relatively perfect legal protection systems and educational resources.
Home-schooling not only avoids the single educational model of school, but also helps to cultivate children's diversified development.
Generally speaking, the "homeschooling" mode is the most worrying thing for children to leave school, like isolated groups, losing friends and being out of touch with society.
However, some researchers and parents believe that one of the advantages of homeschooling is to cultivate interpersonal relationships. Parents can arrange many activities for their children because they don't have to go to school.
For example: study tours, sports, competitions, museums, public welfare work, etc., so that children can get in touch with different people and things, and have more opportunities to go to different places and gain more life experiences.
Let your children often be with the children of neighbors and go to the club.
Contrary to the conventional practice of sending their kids to school, more and more parents today choose to educate their children themselves at home. While this "home-education" model may be beneficial in some ways, home can never replace school as the major place for the education of kids.
与将孩子送到学校这一传统做法相反的是,越来越多的父母现在选择自己在家教育孩子。虽然这种”家庭教育”的模式在某些方面也许有好处,但是,学校才是孩子教育的主要场所,家庭永远也取代不了。
The home-educated kid may be given full attention to while his counterparts in school may well be ignored by his teachers. It is, therefore, very possible that a kid receiving home education excels a kid in school in terms of test scores.
在家接受教育的孩子可以得到全部关照,而他在学校读书的伙伴则完全可能被老师所忽视。因此,在家接受教育的孩子很可能在考试分数上要优干学校的孩子
Nevertheless, test score is not the only objective of education. As far as I understand, education is more about telling a kid to become a better person and the first step towards this aim is learning to get along with people. In this regard, home-education can do very little. However, when the kid is sent to school, he will learn how to work out a problem in cooperation with his peer classmates and in this process, he will understand the art of cooperation and leadership. A home-educated kid, however well he achieves in tests, is just like a flower in greenhouse which easily withers away when exposed to the rain outside.
然而,考试分数不是教育的唯一目标。在我看来,教育更重要的是教会孩子成为一个更好的人,而实现这一目标的第一步就是学会如何与人相处。这一方面, 家庭教育几乎无能为力。但是,如果把孩子送到学校,他就能学会如何与同伴同学合作解决一个问题,在这个过程中,他会明白合作和领导的艺术。接受家庭教育的孩子,无论他的考试分数多高,都不过像温室花朵,一旦遭遇外面的风雨,很容易就凋谢。
Unlike many worried parents who prefer to educate their kids at home, I believe school is the best place for kids' education. While there may be some bad influences outside home, there are also many excellent people who could be role models for kids. Most important of all, it is just in not so pure a place as school that kids can learn to tell right from wrong, good from bad and eventually become physically and psychologically healthy when they grow up.
与那些忧心忡忡宁愿在家教育孩子的父母不同,我相信学校才是教育孩子的最佳地方。虽然家庭外也许存在一些坏的影响,但也有很多优秀的人,可以成为孩子的榜样。最重要的是,正是在像学校这样不纯的地方,孩子们能够学会分辨正误和是非,待他们长大之后,最终成为身心健康的人。