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第一次去女方家,是不是有点紧张?怎么样才能不被未来的岳父岳母给PK掉呢?我来给你一些建议吧。1外表要干净利索衣着得体,举止大方,干净利索!女孩子对男方的第一要求就是外表干... 第一次去女方家,是不是有点紧张?怎么样才能不被未来的岳父岳母给PK掉呢?我来给你一些建议吧。

1 外表要干净利索
衣着得体,举止大方,干净利索!
女孩子对男方的第一要求就是外表干净利索。就算自己平时不大讲究穿着,可这一次一定要好好包装自己。不管你是不是很帅气,
得体的着装能给别人一种暗示,会让对方家人感觉你很在意这次回家。同时这也是尊总女方家人的表现,他们会通过观察你的着装来判定你对他们的重视程度。

2注意多用敬语 礼多人不怪,
见面后要问候寒暄,暖人心间。适度的问候与寒暄能引起交际双方的交谈兴趣与欲望,能活跃交谈气氛,使交谈友好、亲切地进行下去。嘴巴甜一点,要用心称呼女方家人。但同时也要注意,不要过分的谦虚,否则会很不自然。毕竟不久后大家都是一家人了。

3礼物一定要带,但不要太贵重的
要了解女方家人的品位,要知道送礼不是使自己高兴,而是要让别人开心。送礼的时候应当落落大方-不能把礼品放在某个角落里,而要在刚见面或临分手的时候当面交给。

4眼光多放在对象身上,不管她在干什么
这样能传递给女方父母一个信号,那就是你很在乎他们的女儿。同时,女友也会很高兴你这样在意她。

5多帮她干活,一定要两个人一起做
这是父母最希望看到的,看见孩子们这样恩爱互助,不乐疯才怪呢。

6不要抽烟喝酒
如果你不抽烟不喝酒,那就延续你的风格。要是抽烟的话,那就得委屈一下了。通常情况下总会有家人反对抽烟的,如果你不收敛会给别人留下不好的印象,甚至反感。至于
喝酒,可以少喝,但一定要注意,中国人是比较好客的,作为客人的你一不小心就会被灌倒,那出丑可就出大了。所以千万要注意。

7吃饭时话不要多说话
在用餐过程中说话,是件很平常的事。但要选择适宜的话题。此外,在嘴里含着食物的时候,尽量不要说话,以避免不慎食物一不小心就向对方飘散。

8聊天不要太久,适量为好,时间要短
饭后陪父母聊天的时间不宜过长,因为他们可能要休息,为了迎接你的到来,他们肯定准备了不少时间。所以要体谅他们。而且,初次见面,过多的谈话难免有漏洞,或者说错话,要是这样你就惨了。所以尽量缩短谈话时间,即能照顾到他们,又能避免自己犯错误,何乐而不为?

9走时要说感谢的话
这一点很重要,记住,要善始善终,不要一想到离开就开心得不得了,一开心别的都忘了。道谢也是你礼貌的体现,好好的感谢父母为你所准备的一切,让他们感觉没有白忙活,能得到你的认可他们会更加高兴。

10要让对象先走 这体现出你对女友的尊重,女方父母希望自己的女儿找到一个疼爱自己的丈夫。看到这一幕,他们会笑在脸上,甜在心里。

11 要灵活应变
没有一层不变的法则,上述十条也不是真理,你要灵活运用,相机而动。
相信你会有所收获,好好表现一下,应该不会有问题了。
在线翻译不要,那太没有水平了。清高手帮帮忙,谢谢!
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First went to the woman home, is not it a little bit nervous? How could he not be the future father-in-law, mother-to PK sides? I'll give you some suggestions.

1 looks to be clean and neatly
Appropriate dress, manners and generous, cleanly!
Girl on man's first requirement is cleanly appearance. Even if he is not usually pay attention to wear, but this must be properly packed in their own time. Whether you're not very good looking
Appropriate dress will give people a hint, you'll make them feel you are very concerned about the family home. This is also the same time respecting the performance of the total female family members, they will be watching you dress to determine your degree of attention to them.
 
2 Note that many people do not use the honorific ceremony strange,
After meeting to greetings greetings, warm hearts between. Greetings appropriate greetings and conversations can lead to communication of both interest and desire to talk to a climate of active, to keep the conversation friendly and cordial to continue. Sweet little mouth, the woman to call family members heart. But we must be careful not to over-modest, otherwise it will be very natural. After all, soon we are all one family.
 
3, must bring a gift, but not too expensive
 To understand the woman's family's taste and gifts is not to make himself happy, but to other people happy. When gift giving should graceful - not to gift on a corner, but just want to meet face to face or to the temporary break up.
 
4 eyes on the object over the body, no matter what she was doing
This can be passed to the woman's parents and a signal that you are care about their daughter. Meanwhile, the girlfriend will be very glad you care about her.
 
More than 5 to help her work must be done with two people
This is the parents most want to see, to see kids loving this mutual aid, not music mad when pigs fly.
 
6 Do not smoke drink
If you do not smoke do not drink, then continue your style. If smoke, then it was about the wronged. Typically there will always be family members against smoking, and if you do not leave a bad convergence will give others the impression that, even offensive. As
Drinking, you can not drink, but be sure to pay attention to the Chinese people are more hospitable, as guests will be filling you accidentally fall, it may make a fool out big. So do pay attention.
 
7 dinner, then do not talk too much
Speak in the dining process, is a very common thing. But to select the appropriate topic. In addition, the mouth, the food, try not to speak, in order to avoid inadvertent food accidentally released into the atmosphere on the other side.
 
8 Do not talk too long, appropriate for the good time to short
Accompany their parents to chat after dinner time not too long, because they may have to rest, in order to meet your arrival, they are certainly a lot of time to prepare. So to understand them. Moreover, the first meeting, the conversation inevitably too many loopholes, or says the wrong thing, if so you in big trouble. So talk as much as possible to shorten the time, that can take care of them, and avoid their mistakes, why not?
 
9, then travel time to say thanks
This is important, remember to finish the job, not the thought of leaving on a very, very happy, a happy others are forgotten. Thank you is also a manifestation of courtesy, really thank you parents for all prepared, so that they feel there is no white busy for, you can get the recognition they will be more happy.
 
10 let the object go ahead this reflects your respect for his girlfriend, her parents want their daughter to find a love her husband. Looking at this picture, they will laugh in the face, sweet heart.
 
11 to adopt a flexible
No layer of the same laws, the 10 is not the truth, you have to make flexible use, the camera moves.
I believe you will be harvested, what good performance should not be a problem.
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The first to woman's house, a bit nervous? How was the father-in-law of future mother-in-law not to PK off? Let me give you some advice.

1 appearance to clean
Dress and generous demeanor, clean!
The first requirement of the girl is appearance clean. Even if they usually wear is exquisite, can this time must be well packed. No matter you are very handsome,
Appropriate dress can give others a hint, can let person felling you really care about the family home. It is a total of honour family, they will watch you through the dress for them to judge your value.

2 note multi-purpose honorific that costs less than civility,
After the meeting, warm greetings to greet people. Appropriate greeting and greet can cause communication conversation interested and desire to talk, talk, make the active atmosphere friendly, kind to continue. Mouth sweet heart, to call the family. But also wants to notice, don't too modest, otherwise you'll be very natural. After all, everyone is family soon.

3 gift must take, but not too expensive
To understand the grade of the family, to know that his gifts, but not to let others happy. When the gifts should be natural and graceful - not in a corner, gift to break up in just meet or near the time to face.

Four eyes into objects, whether she doing
This can transfer to her parents a signal that you care about their daughter. At the same time, the girl will be also very happy that you care about her.

Five more help her work, must work together to do
This is the most parents need to see, see the children such mutual love, not mad.

6 don't smoke or drink
If you don't drink or smoke, then continue your style. If you smoke, you'll have to injustice. Usually there is family against smoking, if you will not converge to others, even a bad impression. as
Drink, can drink less, but must pay attention to, the Chinese are hospitable, as a guest, you can fill, it will be a big can. So must note.

7 when eating things don't talk so much
In the process of meals, is a very common thing. But to choose appropriate topic. In addition, in the mouth with food, try not to speak, to avoid inadvertent food to drift carelessly.

8 don't take too long to chat, adequate time for good, to short
After the time chatting with parents shoulds not be too long, for they may rest, in order to welcome your coming, they must prepare a lot of time. So to allow them. But, first met, excessive talking a loophole, or is wrong, so if you miserably. So try to shorten the time talking to them, which can take care of themselves, and to avoid making mistakes, why not?

9 when to say thanks
It is important to remember that ends well, not a thought of leaving is happy, a happy everything else forget. Thanks you, good manners for parents to prepare everything, you make them feel no white busy, can you endorse them will be more happy.

10 to let go the first object to reflect your girlfriend's parents hope their respect, her daughter to find a love of her husband. Seeing this, they would laugh in the face, sweet in my heart.

11 to flexible
No one layer of law, the article changeless also not the truth, you will XiangJiErDong flexibly,.
Believe that you will harvest, look good, there should be no problem.
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I am so sorry, I do not know!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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