Question

英语达人进来帮忙翻译一段话，谢谢了

在每个家长心目中，有意无意地都有一种意识，自家的孩子爱怎么管就怎么管，爱怎么安排就怎么安排，那有什么人格不人格的,反正在孩子面前，永远是我说了算。那换种方式来看，这个孩子就像你的私有财产——你看咋的就咋的,不必在乎孩子的感受，不必在乎别人的看法，更谈上说什么对孩子个性发展的尊重，对孩子人格尊重的保护。
这就可以解释为什么很多的父母千辛万苦付出一切后，收获不是幸福，而是痛苦。因为作为家长的你根本没有尊重孩子的意愿，只给自己想给的，只要自己想要的。

Answer 1

In every parent mind, intentionally or unintentionally have a kind of consciousness, their children love how tube to tube, love how to schedule to arrange, what personality no personality, anyway in children in front, is always without my permission. That in another way to see that this child is like your private property - you see zha zha that no matter what is the feelings of children, don't care about the view of others, the more you talk to the child said what respect, individuality development of child personality respect protection.
This may explain why many parents hard-earned pay all after harvest is not happy, but the pain. Because as parents of you couldn't have respect child's wishes, give myself only want to give, as long as you want.