Question

高中英语~！！

When something goes wrong, it can be very satisfying to say, "Well, it’s so-and-so’s fault. "or "I know I’m late, but it’s not my fault; the car broke down. " It is probably not your fault, but once you form the habit of blaming somebody or something else for a bad situation, you are a loser. You have no power and could do nothing that helps change the situation. However, you can have great power over what happens to you if you stop focusing on whom to blame and start focusing on how to remedy the situation
大家帮帮我翻译这个句子“However, you can have great power over what happens to you if you stop focusing on whom to blame and start focusing on how to remedy the situation” 还有 over是什么意思？

Answer 1

这句话的意思是~~
但是，如果你对发生在你身上的事情，能够不重点思考应该去抱怨批评谁而是关注如果解决这个问题的话，你就会得到更多的力量
这里的over就是通过，表示渠道，提示下面的条件

这句话英语的结构复杂，慢慢来哦，不着急~
希望能帮到你~不懂得话，给我留言~

Answer 2

无论如何，你有能力度过发生在你身上的事情，如果你不集中在谁责备你而是去集中于如何补救这一情形的话。
介词：越过、度过

Answer 3

意译：当你遇到问题时，专注与怎么补救而不是去责备谁将会更加有助于让你解决困难
这里的over是超过的意思，意思是你拥有解决问题的能力，能力凌驾于困难之上
我觉得上面人说的通过的意思不对。。。。