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求翻译，一定要翻译准确啊，谢谢大家..我要背呢..

Hi, TigerMom,

What puzzles you is actually a puzzle for many parents in China. My idea is that it is not quite right for you to do so.

Although high grades are an important factor in evaluating students and for their future university admission, development in wisdom, emotion, health, and life attitude should never be ignored. There are many examples around us. Some all-A students in school have turned out not to be as successful in society as they were expected. The reason is often that the pressure from their parents allows them almost no time for other activities. Furthermore, punishment is by no means a wise choice to help them grow up mentally and physically.

So I suggest that you take your friends’ advice. More importantly, let her live like a lovely girl; let her have more friends and social activities; and let her make mistakes of her own as we teenagers often do.

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困扰我的问题实际上也是困扰了许多中国家长的问题。我认为你的做法并不是十分正确。
尽管高分在评价学生和学生未来要进入的大学方面是一个重要因素，但学生在智力、情感、健康方面的发展以其生活态度也是不容忽视的。我们周围就有很多例子。一些在学校得全A的尖子生在社会上并不如大家预想的那样成功。其原因往往是来自家长的压力使他们几乎没有时间来进行自己的活动。除此之外，惩罚绝不是一个帮助学生身心健康成长的明智选择。
所以我建议你采纳你朋友的建议。更重要的是，让她像一个普通小女孩那样生活，让她有更多的朋友和社会活动，允许她像我们年轻时那样犯自己的错误。