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Praise-aholic kids who expect it at every turn may become teens who seek the same kind of approval from their friends when asked if they want to go in the backscat of the car .
The implication (含义)of saying “You are the prettiest girl in class ,” or talking about the goals she scored but not her overall effort ,is that you love her only when she looks the best ,scores the highest , achieves the most . And this carrics over to the classroom .
Praising attributes (品质) or abilities makes a falses promise that success will come to you because you have that quality , and it devalues effort , so children are afrail to take on challenges ,”says Deeck ,now at Stanford University . “They figure they'd better quit while they're ahead .” 展开
The implication (含义)of saying “You are the prettiest girl in class ,” or talking about the goals she scored but not her overall effort ,is that you love her only when she looks the best ,scores the highest , achieves the most . And this carrics over to the classroom .
Praising attributes (品质) or abilities makes a falses promise that success will come to you because you have that quality , and it devalues effort , so children are afrail to take on challenges ,”says Deeck ,now at Stanford University . “They figure they'd better quit while they're ahead .” 展开
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对夸奖上瘾的小孩希望每时每刻得到表扬,他们可能在十几岁时从朋友身上寻求同样的肯定,甚至当被问及是否愿意做在汽车后排的时候。
“你是班上最漂亮的小孩”这句话,或者与她讨论达到多少成绩的目标而不是付出多少努力,都意味着你只在她最漂亮、得分最高、获得最多的时候爱她。而这种想法会带到教室里去。
现在斯坦福大学的Deeck说,“夸奖一个人的品质或者能力是一种错误的承诺,你成功只是因为你具备了成功的品质,而降低了努力的重要性,因而孩子们害怕承担挑战。他们觉得当他们面临挑战的时候不如退出。“
“你是班上最漂亮的小孩”这句话,或者与她讨论达到多少成绩的目标而不是付出多少努力,都意味着你只在她最漂亮、得分最高、获得最多的时候爱她。而这种想法会带到教室里去。
现在斯坦福大学的Deeck说,“夸奖一个人的品质或者能力是一种错误的承诺,你成功只是因为你具备了成功的品质,而降低了努力的重要性,因而孩子们害怕承担挑战。他们觉得当他们面临挑战的时候不如退出。“
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praise-aholic孩子谁期望它动辄谁可能成为青少年寻求同样的批准,他们的朋友时,问他们是否想在backscat的车。
的意义(含义)说:“你是班里最漂亮的女孩,“谈论她的分数而不是整体的努力,是你才爱她时,她看起来是最好的,分数最高,达到最。这carrics到教室。
赞美属性(品质)或能力使一个虚伪的承诺,你会成功的因为你有质量,而贬低了努力,所以孩子们afrail接受挑战,说:”deeck,现在斯坦福大学。“他们觉得他们'最好放弃当他们'在前面。”
的意义(含义)说:“你是班里最漂亮的女孩,“谈论她的分数而不是整体的努力,是你才爱她时,她看起来是最好的,分数最高,达到最。这carrics到教室。
赞美属性(品质)或能力使一个虚伪的承诺,你会成功的因为你有质量,而贬低了努力,所以孩子们afrail接受挑战,说:”deeck,现在斯坦福大学。“他们觉得他们'最好放弃当他们'在前面。”
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