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急！请哪位英语高手帮忙翻译一下下面的一篇文章，机器翻译的止步！在线等，谢!

Is Money a major Conflicting Issue in Your Relationship? I have a hard time talking to my wife about money. She says it makes her nervous. We relate to money so differently. Growing up, money was always there for me, my family had plenty. Hers was always in debt. Owing money scares her but it doesn't bother me at all. I'm confident I'll pay it back eventually. When my wife puts pressure on me to go out and find work, I just want to go to bed and lie down. I can't handle it when people put pressure on me; I either get depressed or rebel. It's probably because my mother was all over me, trying to make me do whatever she wanted. I'm still rebelling against her. I just don't like doing things when someone else is trying to force me to do them. To me, living for money means being controlled and confined, which I've been fighting all my life. I'm a free spirit; I want to be free to do what my heart tells me. If you're only working for money, you're either anxious because you don't have enough of it or you're working at something you don't enjoy because you want the income it brings. But Mary thinks that because I don't make as much money as she wants, I'm a failure. Obviously, that's hard for me to take. And in our society a lot of people would say she's right. The fact that I bring in at least half the income of the house is irrelevant. I guess one of my problems is that I've always been a rebel. What society says is “normal” has never impressed me. In fact, I wouldn't care if Mary made all the money. Now I do half the housework and take care of the kids when she's at work. If she made more money, and liked her job, I'd be happy to stay home with the kids and do all the housework. She needs to understand that I'm not like other people. And that's why she loved me. That's what attracted her to me. I don't want to hurt her, but I can't sell my soul to make money. What the neighbors think doesn't bother me.

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金钱是一个主要的冲突问题在您的关系？我很难和我的妻子钱。她说，这使她紧张。我们对金钱的看法很不相同。在成长的过程中，钱是为我而存在，我的家庭有足够。她总是负债。欠钱使她惊慌，但这一点也不打扰我。我相信我最终是会归还的。当我的妻子给我压力出去找工作，我只想上床躺下。我不能处理它，当人们把我的压力；我感到沮丧或反叛。这也许是因为我妈妈一直掌控着我，试图让我做她想做的事情。我仍然反抗她。我只是不喜欢做别人强迫我做的事。对我来说，为钱而活意味着被人控制和约束，这是我一辈子都在反抗。我的精神是自由的；我想要自由的做我的心告诉我。如果你仅仅为了钱而工作，你要么是焦虑是因为你没有足够的钱或你做那些你不喜欢的工作因为那些能给你带来收入。但玛丽认为因为我挣不到她想要的那么多钱，我是个失败者。显然，对我来说这很难接受。在我们这个社会很多人会说她是对的。事实上，我将至少一半收入的房子是无关紧要的。我想我的问题之一是，我一直是一个叛逆者。什么社会认为是“正常”从来没有给我留下了深刻的印象。事实上，我不在乎玛丽赚的所有的钱。现在我做一半的家务和照顾孩子，当她在工作的时候。如果她挣更多的钱，也喜欢她的工作的话，我很乐意和孩子们呆在家里做家务。她需要理解，我不像其他人。这就是为什么我爱她。那是她吸引我的原因。我不想伤害她，但我不能出卖我的灵魂去赚钱。邻居们会怎么想不打扰我。