Question

急求大神帮忙翻译，不要google的

Recently, a friend phoned me. She’s one of those people who could talk under wet cement. I’ve discovered that I can even put the phone down and attend to something in another room while she’s talking and she doesn’t even notice.
A second friend phoned me that night. I was very tired, but I soon forgot my weariness as we animatedly shared our opinions, beliefs and personal experiences. Time flew, and as I went to bed very late that night, I thought “Now, that was a really good conversation!”
it occurred to me that it might be an interesting topic to research for my speech tonight. So I asked some of my friends what they thought made a good conversation.
They had different suggestions, but all agreed on three main points.
Mutual interest,Give and Take, Trust
Let’s look at the first one.
A conversation has to be of interest to all concerned. As one friend suggested, it’s when two or more people voluntarily explore the topic. But how can we be sure that we are not boring others? We need to be sensitive to the cues our listener gives us. Someone suggested if he is pulling away from your grip, or standing on tiptoe making desperate signals to someone else he probably wants out!
All my friends agreed that a conversation thrives on the balance of giving and taking. Conversations are the building blocks of a relationship, one told me. If it leans too far in one direction, the relationship will topple.
We agreed that giving and taking can be done both through speaking and listening. Through talking we can entertain, inform, advise, and share personal experiences. We fulfil our listener’s emotional needs when we sympathize, praise or reassure him.

Answer 1

最近，一个朋友打电话给我。她是其中一人可以说在湿水泥。我发现我甚至可以放下电话，参加在另一个房间，她说，她甚至没有注意。
另一个朋友打电话给我的夜晚。我很累，但我很快就忘了我的意愿，我们兴致勃勃地分享我们的意见，信仰和个人经验。时间飞逝，和我上床很晚了，我想“现在，这是一个很好的谈话！“
我突然想到，这可能是一个有趣的研究课题为我今晚的演讲。我问我的一些朋友，他们有了一个良好的交谈。
他们有不同的意见，但都同意的三个要点。
共同的利益，并采取，信任
让我们看看第一个。
谈话感兴趣的所有有关。作为一个朋友建议，这是当两个或更多的人自愿探讨的话题。但是我们怎么能确定我们不是无聊的人？我们需要敏感的线索，我们的听众给我们。有人建议说如果他拉离你的抓地力，或踮起脚尖使绝望的信号，其他人可能想出来的！
我所有的朋友都认为谈话基于平衡给予和接受。对话是大厦的关系，有人告诉我。如果倾斜太远的一个方向，关系会倒下。
我们同意给予和接受可以通过听和说。通过交谈，我们可以接受，通知，建议，并分享个人经验。我们履行我们的听众的情感需求时，我们同情他们，赞美或安抚他。

Answer 2

看二楼的