Question

英语翻译,求大神帮忙,不要翻译器什么的翻译的.急!!

If you are thinking, “how to find yourself when you are lost?”, then the first thing to do is to have a rest from everything—work, personal life and all worldly things. Give time to yourself to think why you seem lost. Is it because of over work? Is it because you are not leading a life that you want to? Or is it because you are not satisfied with the people or things around you? Try to find answers to these questions to determine the cause behind your restlessness.
For once, instead of being the way others want you to be, be yourself. Look within and find yourself in you. Think about the things that you would want to do if you didn’t have any family obligations or any money issues. Think about the kind of relationship you would want to be in, the place that you would like to stay in, the kind of lifestyle you would like to lead, if you didn’t have the society or people around you, judging all the time. If you really want to know how to find inner peace, then think, what you would want others to describe you as—an honest person? Or adventurous? Or loving, or realistic? Once you look within, you will know the answer and then try to be exactly that.

Answer 1

如果你在想：“你迷失时如何找回自我？”，那么首先要做的是从所有的事情从脱身休息——工作、个人生活以及所有的琐事。给自己时间来思考为什么会迷失。是因为工作过多吗？是因为没有过上想过的生活吗？还是因为你对身边的人或事情不满？试着找出问题的答案以便决定你心神不定的真正原因。

就这一次，不要做其他人想让你成为的人，而是做自己。查看自己的内心并从中找到自我。想一想如果没有周遭的社会和人群来时时刻刻地评价你，你愿意建立何种关系，你希望逗留在何地，你想要什么样的生活方式。如果你真的想知道如何找到内心的平静，那么，想象一下你希望别人如何描述你——一个诚实的人？关爱的人？还是现实的人？一旦你自我审视过了，你就会知道答案，而后试着真正做到如此。