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Disillusionment（醒悟）with the parents, however good and adequate they may be both as parents and as individuals, is to some degree inevitable.
原文：Parents are often upset when their children praise the homes of their friends and regard it as a slur (诋毁) on their own cooking, or cleaning, or furniture, and often are foolish enough to let the teenagers see that they are annoyed. They may even accuse them of disloyalty, or make some unpleasant remark about the friends’ parents. Such a loss of dignity and attack on childish behavior on the part of the adults deeply shocks the teenagers, and makes them decide that in future they will not talk to their parents about the places or people they visit. Before very long the parents will be complaining that the child is so secretive and never tells them anything, but they seldom realize that they have brought this on themselves.
Disillusionment（醒悟）with the parents, however good and adequate they may be both as parents and as individuals, is to some degree inevitable.

Answer 1

父母往往是沮丧时,他们的孩子赞扬自己朋友的家时,把它当作一个污点(诋毁)对他们自己的饭菜,卫生,或家具,而且愚蠢地让青少年们发现他们的烦恼。他们甚至责备他们不忠,或做一些负面的评论。大人如此丧失尊严以及攻击幼稚的行为方面的成年人深深震惊的青少年,使他们决定以后不再向父母讲述去过的地方和见过的人。不要很久,家长就会抱怨孩子守口如瓶,什么事也不告诉他们,但他们很少意识到,他们把这个在自己身上。
幻灭与父母(醒悟),但他们可能足够好,作为家长,在某种程度上不可避免的。